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After a while on Collarme, it was time for a change, more specifically, opening up about my needs, Ds philosophy, and thoughts about this site...
Its all in a name. My Ds journey has been, for the most part, 10 years of amazing. I started as a sub, topped, and switched again. To be honest, I am very good at both, and I do not believe there is any truth to the thought that one cannot per both as an outstanding sub and Dom. It truly depends on the personal dynamic between two people. I am a people pleaser, my pleasure and desire is dependent on my partner being satisfied. I am more than just kinky, I seek the power dynamic.
Here are both of my sides, pick one, read both, either way, I hope it sparks a conversation.
My Dominant Side...
I say needs because I truly believe that our lifestyle is need based. For me, vanilla does not quench my desires. I need Ds. I need the feelings and emotions that it brings. I need the feeling of holding ones complete trust, the precious gift that it is, in my hands. Knowing that a beautiful woman, who is vulnerable before me, is a willing participant in me pushing her limits, for both of our mutual pleasure. I need her to let go, completely, so I can take her places she has never been and be the only one for that time to take care of her.
I am not a cruel sadist, but I do enjoy watching a woman squirm when she does not know what is coming next. I want to exploit her comfort level. My vision of Ds relationship, and we all have them, is a submissive woman I can laugh with and have a meaningful discussion with (I love good healthy intellectual discourse), but with one look knows she is mine. I need a woman who challenges me intellectually, but when the time comes, will kneel before me.
My submissive side...
As a submissive, I am a bit of a masochist, and am alright being brought to tears at times. I have served some amazing Women, who having taught me a wide variety of skills, protocol, and experiences. Although I do have the typical hard limits (scat, pee, blood, piercing, permanent marks, animals, children).
If I can find someone to hand my trust completely over too, I will be Hers, no questions asked. No topping from bottom. A submissive who knows his place at Her willful desires.
In the end, if any of this piques your curiosity in any way, please drop me a line, Domme and sub alike. It will be my honor. Yes, I have pictures, yes I will share, just not publicly, just ask )
ASwitchJourney
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So much unnecessary drama. Well then... |
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Ecstatic, must be the elephants! |
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Why is this so difficult? Anyway, back to reality... |
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I was told this weekend, "You have such a gift for making someone feel so much better about themselves."
So, I got that going for me. If you are having a bad day, or need an ego boost, I guess I am your man ;) |
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"Trust is so important, and if you have that kind of trust with another person, you can completely let go. You can lose yourself in that moment. You can enter a higher level of awareness. Even though you maybe in bondage, it is pure freedom, liberation, and awakening." |
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Oh, one thing I forgot in the profile, I am not paying for play. Thanks! |
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| Age: 28 |
| NEW YORK,
United Kingdom |
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