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I'm searching for a lifetime partner: someone who can lead, follow or get the hell out of My way if they can't get it. I am a woman first and switch second. I have a full life as a volunteer in several organizations, so the Man or boy who wants to be my partner in crime, would have to be able to keep up with me in all that I have a passion for and am involved with in public.
Could you be that person?
I know what I am want and am not afraid to ask for it for so I will save anyone over 48 YEARS OLD my precious time and ask that you DO NOT contact me and waste Our time.
It is a personal choice I've made and no one can change my mind. Also, I don't want to be anyone's baby or daughter. I am a woman, period.
Plus, if you seek financial support,
there are groups for that, so keep on going.
I can be "b*$Rchy" but I'm the most upfront, honest person you'll ever meet and I am an awesome friend if nothing else to share wicked thoughts with and go have coffee together.
Now, write soon and let the fun begin!
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Ok so I bitch that no one is looking at my profile and now I'm gonna bitch that some of you who try to contact me DO NOT READ at all!
1) I'm a person first and then the lifestyle comes into play. So until you get to know the lady, don't even consider telling me what to do! Good grief folks, it is a choice, not my life at this point and until you are in my life 24/7, please talk to me as a person.
2) I'm looking for a partner in crime and until you get to really know me, you cannot expect me to be anything but me.
3) Does any of this make me less than what you are hunting for? I don't know but you have to figure that out by actually writing me first and then talk and then a possible meeting.
4) If you are more than 10 years younger than me, we won't have anything in common. And while I read about cougars, I'm not one.
5) And IF you seek a doormat, keep going. I'm not slave material nor am I a doormat. I have a brain and a job that require to think and organize every minute I'm on duty. I love my job so I'm not giving it up for anyone unless I want to.
I do hope you all are having a great day off, I am.
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Well, I have recently been spanked and learned I LOVE it. I will be giving these as well as receiving. Do I crave it 24/7? Not sure yet.
What do I know? I want to share my life with someone. Am still hunting and talking, so I haven't died or become stagnant. I just haven't found what I want, but I know what I like.
We shall see where this takes us and I will write more soon.
Have a great day, tomorrow is MONDAY, so make life what you want and enjoy it! |
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So I finally got some time off for me and attended one of the best places I've ever been. It was a kink camping trip and I had a wonderful time.
It was cathartic, relaxing, and overall wonderful. I was surrounded by loved ones who happen to also be my friends. Some I know very well and others I'm just getting to know better.
Life is good, good times make it better and able to endure the really shitty times.
I can't wait to do it again soon! Have a wonderful weekend, I have to work...UGH.
Later. |
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Life on this site is interesting. i spoke to one person who seemed interested and we had a few conversations and now nothing.
i meet another and conversations are wonderful and we go forward. So what is this folks? Two steps forward, three back?
i'm only a girl, a submissive, a Dom and a switch. What that means is i love life and have experienced many things. it also means i'm open to new experiences as well.
But i make no bones or mysteries about who i am as a person either.
So we shall see for life is what Y/you make it.
i wish A/all here well.... |
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Are there no real men out there? i haven't had anyone write me in awhile that was not just a friend. i'm definitely sexy but i am a small BBW. i have a brain and dammit i'm no doormat nor a slave, just a good old fashion switch who leans more to the left of being just submissive. I'm a brat and a bitch but i like who i am and am not going to change.
So if someone wants a real relationship and not just the sex and or the bondage, but a true girl who likes being a sexy goddess at your feet or in your arms, write M/me.
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I had not noticed I haven't written anything here in some time. Where has time gone? Between work and Mom, i stay quite busy.
I'll be writing quite a bit next few weeks. I enrolled in a short story class. This is a new adventure for me. Now I am a poet and have written those for some time and that isn't hard to me...this will be a challenge and I like that!
I'm also taking and facilitating a portrait painting with oils class and it is very relaxing for me.
Last but not least: my BDSM group has splintered because current leadership doesn't give a crap if we grow or not. So a new group was begun and I'm a charter member.
I'm working on beginning toy making classes which should be ALOT of fun! Lots of good ideas all over the place: BDSM on a budget!
I'll post pics here as time goes by....until then, may A/all here kink on and enjoy life one day at a time. Take the good and the bad and leave the UGLY at the table to deny....
have a wonderful day....J/j
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Work is good, but crazy. Each month keeps flying by. I wonder if I'm short changing my mom and our relationship, but she seems happy that I went back to work. All I've wanted is to keep her healthy and happy.
Having cancer is like ripping one's heart out: it is cruel and painful. It is like an attack from the killer tomatoes, but much slower and far more vicious than any filmmaker, even Steven King, could ever put into film.
I'm hoping with patience, once my life calms down and Mom's gone, to either
find one to serve me or one that i may serve and find happiness, the partnership I/i desire and more.
So read these digests as I'll add more about myself and what's going on in my life here soon.
Have a great day! Be RACK or SSC whichever suits you....
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I'm going back to work full time. I don't really want to but this is a job that won't wait for me and one that I'm good at, so accepted it.
So part of my life is beginning to make sense again, so where's my other half of me?
Now let me clarify that I've never needed a man to complete ME. I've also never had to have one either, but I also would love to share who I am and the life I have with someone special.
So let's see where this goes for now since I'm poetically waxing for what I want most. Hope if you are reading this that I hear back from you soon.....
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I finally made it back to my group Saturday night and had a good time. While I didn't Top or bottom with anyone, I enjoyed being with like-minded folks. That in itself felt very satisfying and a release from the stress I'm under. While things are temporary, they seem like a lifetime.
Good friends, good food, great scenes. What a night! Can't wait for the next time either....
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Is it summertime yet? It was hot enough today to make me just spend the day sleeping on the couch. Never mind that finals are approaching and I need to be studying!
Tomorrow I study, today I slept! Too bad I didn't have a boy waking Me once in awhile to see if I needed a lemonade or something else....LOL!
Switches are better because if you are both one = more play and more surprises. Now my appetite is hungry again....wish I had more enchiladas!
Ok, time for bed again, blast all I do is sleep lately.....someone needs to find their way to M/me! Hehehehehe....please write soon with suggestions! Once this year is over, maybe I'll be able to act on them!
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Geez, what is up with older guys looking at my profile? IF you are older than 46, you are wasting your time and mine. Ok, maybe I should be just a Dom. No, I retract that. I'm just old enough to know exactly what I want and I'm not afraid to state it.
I'm not seeking a "Daddy". Nor am I wanting to be someone's "baby". I'm a sub or Dom depending on the mood I'm in. Period. I have my moments and I'm no doormat. I'm just a girl who doesn't want to lose who she is in the process of serving or being served.
So if you are looking for TPE or 24/7, keep on truckin! If you are wanting a real relationship, with a real person, then let's talk. But if you are old enough to be my brother (56), you are TOO old for my tastes. Just being an honest forthright lady, that's all. Ok I can be a B#^*H also but that's not necessary to make a point either.
So someone wanting romance with a good spanking as well, please write me! Have a great day!
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Are there any real men on this list? Or boys?
All I seem to get are emails from couples or someone who wants a doormat. I'm a switch and that means I have a brain.
Currently, I am unavailable, but not dead.
My vanilla life has taken over but it isn't a permanent situation. I'm being a caregiver at this time and in reality, submissive to my family rather than to a Dominant.
I'd still love to chat with folks so email me.
I haven't dropped off the face of the earth, my time is just more compacted.
Here is wishing that all here had a nice Valentine's Day. Perhaps my dream come true will find me to celebrate with H/him next year.
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I had to go SHOPPPING today! I was just doing regular daily stuff; not Christmas shopping. The stores are PACKED and the later in the evening, the worse it gets. UGH.
I'm so glad I don't work in retail anymore. I do not miss that scene at all other than seeing the great buys before everyone else and occasionnally scooping up goodies before others! Yes, retail ppl tend to buy what YOU want first! That's why you don't always find everything...Hahahahaha!
I am spending Christmas alone without family due to house sitting. Sure wish I had a pet to share it with...sighs, maybe NEXT year????
I wish y/You all a very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! Perhaps the New Year shall bring NEW adventures!
Enjoy....
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I have been so busy with life itself, I forgot to add my thoughts here. Now with another semester in school over, here I am. What to say? Well I'm glad its the holiday season and I am sort of glad that we've finally gotten some cold weather as I hate all the bugs that come out in the spring when we don't have enough cold freezes! I wish I could think of something witty but I'm at a loss for words and my friends who truly know me, would say WHAT?!!! but tonight so I'll end this for now before I say anything unkind, or out of place and wish you all a wonderful weekend and a very Merry Christmas, Merry Kwanzaa, Happy Hanukkah, Happy Solstice and Happy New Year! (Did I leave anyone out? If so, happy whatever!)
Have a good one...
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Labor Day weekend and all I'm going to do is work work work. Ok, I'm bitching, but I did it to myself. I'm finally down to the last 15 hours of prerequisites for my bachelor's and then I'll find out how much more I have to go after that.
No one said this would be entirely fun, but but but! LOL...I have a warped sense of humor, but no one with any patience to share it with!
I have a full life that is busy but hectic but am not looking for anyone who doesn't understand it. I want to share it and share their world at times as well.
The trick is to balance both and after October when I either quit my current job and just be a caretaker or else find a better part time job, then life will have an opportunity to go far and have some fun!
Ok, that's enough for now...I need some sleep! I hope everyone has a Happy but safe Labor Day weekend!
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So where have all the romantics gone to? All I/i am searching for is someone who realizes I'm a woman first who can either lead or follow, but also wants to know who I am as a person.
To be submissive is to give of one's heart and soul. Nothing more or less other than to be able to trust someone so completely to understand that you serve them. I understand that whether I'm the top or the bottom.
I love to know that even in public that a kiss is acceptable and so is holding hands and hugging. I'm not afraid to show the person I care about that I do care about them.
But I want to be able to share who I am completely. So where are all the romantics? And not just the ones who want to say, come here NOW?
Somebody write me even if all you want to do is argue the point, ok?
Have a nice day....j/J.
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I want to let the boys who might be interested in getting to know Me to understand I've only owned one boy prior to now. I am learning to be a good Domme as to fulfill both of our needs and wants.
This lifestyle isn't all I am however. I never want to be known as a "player", but just a woman who wants Her desires fulfilled and to be thought of as a special woman who can hold a complete conversation while you are all tied up.
Now most men think all women NEED someone to complete them. I am a self-sufficient woman and the reason I want a partner <Notice I said WANT, not NEED> is to share the fantastic life I have made here in my hometown.
Trust, honesty and open communication are the keys to any relationship especially the D/s. I never forget that the sub holds the keys whether I'm the sub or the Dom.
My treat to any submissive with Me would be to allow them to tie Me up in return IF they earn that right. And I also promise that I will never do anything to them that I haven't tried in some form or fashion. However, that doesn't include CBT...I can't help but not be able to try that! not fair, I'll agree though....
Ok, someone write Me again and let's talk.
Have a great day!
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I really wish people wouldn't contact Me if they are only searching for an additional partner. I don't believe I put on my list that I was searching for a "playtoy". I'm searching for a person who wants to be with Me for life.
I want friendship, companionship and marriage eventually if the other works out first. I don't want to "own" someone for the sake of it. I want them to give of themselves to me because a) they trust Me b) they want to really be with Me.
So if you are looking only for a "good time", don't contact Me because I want more and I can't give you what you want.
I also live here in this great state of Texas and if you live elsewhere, I can't help you with that either.
I know what I want: question is does anyone else out there? IF so, I do want to hear from y/You.
Miss J/j
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Hello to A/all reading this dialogue. This isn't my first time on this list. I was here before and thought i/I'd met someone and it didn't work out.
So I rejoined showing my true colours. I love to be in charge. i can be a submissive because subs are really in charge in a great D/s relationship.
I/i'm searching for a full time real life partner with marriage, collar and rings. H/he will have to follow m/Me through my world of volunteerism and love of theater.
Last person I thought I had something going on with decided I needed to be changed. I'm too old to be changed, just taught new ideas and things. And I'm not an overly religious person either but I do enjoy a private relationship with God since I'm also a caregiver for Mom. When you live with someone for more than 10 years and watch them change, trust M/me you learn humility, respect and patience.
Ok time for sleep. See what Y/you think and please write soon.
--j/MissJ
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