Not new here, but have been absent for a while. I have women I use as fuck buddies so I come and go depending on how obliging they are.

Are there women here who seek to give themselves to a man who is looking to enjoy them fully and for mutual pleasure? By "Mutual Pleasure" you are aware I do not seek a relationship with you. I have that with my fuck buddy. I simply seek an exchange of fucking or bodily fluids when it suits me.

I seek someone who seeks to submit, but in a more gentle and gradual way, even though I have nothing to offer you and only seek you for causal sex. I don't want to bull whip anyone (don't you need hide like leather to make this work well for both parties)? Nor do I want to burn, brand, cut or pepper anyone with needles. I know this may well be a means of S/m exponents gaining their pleasure, and that it also establishes trust that the submissive is in 'safe hands', and my respects to those that enjoy this, but it's really not for me. I like to experiment with painful sensations, but as part of a wider physical and mental connection. I also enjoy the more sexual/sensual side of M/s and so may well be better suited to a newish submissive that seeks a baptism of warmth! Also if you are newer and a bit younger, you may not have realised that I'm a player. I have an attraction for the Daddy/girlie/pet dynamic and would be happy to repeat this with the right female, even if she is new and needs guidance. Being new suits me better as you won't realise that "mutual pleasure" means I am in a relationship and have nothing to offer you but casual sex on the side. That said, more experienced ladies that seek a sane and sensible form of D/s are welcomed too, as long as you don't question me about how many women I am seeing.

I will also lie to you but I am happy doing this, I do not feel I have to explain myself to you or why I lie, that is my life and I like being like this.
I am a mature working man of reasonable intelligence and attractive appearance. Of course I say I am attractive, but it is a subjective term and you might not think the same. I like to think I am intelligent, I congratulate myself on the lies I tell you and how I will twist them to make it look like you are the problem. It is called "Gaslighting" but I prefer newer younger girls because they don't realise it, and are easier for me to take advantage of. I will use my "working" to take advantage of you. I will tell you I am very busy and can't see you for weeks although in those weeks I will be fucking other women but pretending to you that I am just SO busy with work we can't meet.

If all went well, I would hope that an ongoing relationship could be established, but one where you accept I am a player and am fucking other women. I can never have too many women. I am confident that I never need to explain myself or why I lie or conceal the truth from you, and I am hoping you are dim enough that you won't see it. I am hoping we would reach ever greater levels of inter-twining, although not so great that you start realising I am lying, or expect me to tell you the truth or expect me to stop seeing the other women I am currently fucking. I want my life to carry on with me seeing numerous women for causal sex and then pretending I have the moral highground if you question me on it.