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	I'm a 32-year-old reluctant adult charging through life with the goal of one day being someone's "if it wasn't for you, I wouldn't be here." I'm an optimist, an idealist, and a romantic. I’m goofy, a nerd. I love read, I love to learn, and I love to laugh. I'm interested in a man I can have an easy conversation with. Someone who will laugh with me and laugh at me. Someone who sets clear boundaries early on and sticks to it. Someone who wont let me push him but will understand when I'm grumpy or bratty for reasons that have nothing to do with him and will accept that part of me. Someone who has natural dominant energy, who is so comfortable with who he is that he doesnt have to exert himself proving his dominance or his masculinity. Someone who is a great communicator and isn't afraid of his emotions or mine. Someone who is honest, optimistic and kind. Someone who will value my mind and won't dismiss my thoughts or ideas. Someone who is reliable and consistent. Someone who keeps his promises. Someone who is considerate and caring. Someone who is independent and stable and who is in a position in his life to be a present and attentive dominant. Someone who can hold a conversation and has interests outside of sex. Someone who can admit when he's wrong but careful enough not to be wrong often. Someone who will see my submission as the gift it is and will gift me with guidance and boundaries to thrive in.

9/27/2022 3:20:01 PM

This issue I have with this high-value man trope that has been trending recently is that when the things you have are prioritized over who you have become, you're only wealthy is the most superficial ways. When they talk about value, they never talk about character. So here are all of these men celebrated for having wealth but not substance. Who are you when you're in a room alone? Are you a good person? Are you a trusting person? Do you give your time and attention to the people you love? Are you able to provide for those rely on you in ways that don't require money? Do you genuinely care about people? Do you nourish what you put into the ground? Do you take care of the spaces around you? These high-value men are put on this pedestal in the communities they're a part of because they have a lot to stuff but they don't have a lot of high moral character because that's not emphasized in those community. That's disappointing.

5/7/2022 10:40:27 PM

I don't want to spend a bunch of time messaging back and forth. I want to actually meet someone in person, have phone and FaceTime conversations. I'm seeking an actual, in person, long term relationship. So if you're not serious about wanting a relationship, or if you're not in a position to enter into one, don't message me and if I message you, disregard.