Having been involved in the lifestyle since my early twenties, I have, and continue to, always push the envelope (APTE).

My kinky preferences include activities rarely experienced by others, let alone fantasized by them. I am a firm believer that if something feels good and is between consenting adults, anything goes.

What I am now searching for is a 24/7 relationship with an attractive woman who also wishes to push the envelope sexually, but who is interested in a conventional relationship outside of the sexual side. It is a submissive woman I seek -- not a slave.

Sexually, my partner will be treated as a slut. Her limits will always be respected and her pleasure will always be as important as mine.

Apart from the sexual, she will be treated like a queen.

Before entering semi-retirement, I was in a relatively high profile career, so I am reluctant to post any photos; however, I will provide them to any serious respondents interested in a 24/7 arrangement.


I am divorced, live alone, and enjoy a relatively comfortable, debt free lifestyle.