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ANaturalDominant

Hello and welcome. About me... I've lived a wonderfully dominant life. I'm healthy and comfortable with who I am. My wife of many happy years was my love/lover/sub/mate. There is a term. TPE or Total Power Exchange. The most powerful exchange in my life would be those times she would be going up the stairs while I watched, and her soft voice saying "good night Sir". She was Extraordinary! My 'door' has been forced open, a new life is beginning. I wasn't seeking a new life, but now I am a widower so I must embrace it with gusto. I am on a new journey in life now so here I am. Financially secure and able to go anywhere in the world I choose. About you... I seek quality. If you have pornographic photos of you displayed for all, I wouldn't be interested in you. If you are proud of being used by the multitude to get where you are now, I wouldn't be interested in you. If your profile starts with arrogant "DON'T THIS OR THAT" I wouldn't be interested in you. If you are drop dead gorgeous, but can't carry a conversation, I wouldn't be interested in you. If you are obese, I wouldn't be interested in you. Women in my life have always been health conscious. I am into being healthy and fit. I am an avid swimmer and enjoy being in good shape. I am seeking a woman who takes her health seriously, fit and height/weight proportionate. Age is not the most important issue. I have known mature as well as immature women of all ages, however 30 to 50 more or less seems to be a good middle ground, but as I said age is not an important issue. I am a simple, honest Dominant Man seeking a simple honest submissive woman. I wish to spend quality time with a quality woman. If you do not have a photo of yourself on your profile that's fine. I don't think it's necessary to show the internet who you are. If we talk/message I will want to exchange photos soon. We both know physical attraction is part of the equation. I don't care where in the world you are as long as you are intelligent enough to realize finding someone special, someone extraordianary, is seldom found in your backyard. D P.S. I've been asked, what is a natural dominant. To me a natural dominant is one who from the beginning of life has a quality that stands out as one people are naturally drawn to. People seek the leadership of a dominant personality. A natural dominant grows more sure of his dominance through life and experiences demonstrate that fact. Within the scope of D/s I believe D must have himself in order, sure about who he is, what he wants and has control over those things in his own life before he should expect s to have confidence in him to take control of her. From the pages of STEEL DOOR "There is a catagory called the Alpha Dominant aka High Level Dominant aka Natural Dominant. This individual appears to have been born dominant with natural skills, highly imaginative, creative, flexible, energetic and intense. They have no need to prove themselves. They are highly motivated, precise, detail oriented, aggressive, charming and capable of literally anything." P.S.S. I borrowed this from a submissive woman's profile. I believe in it. "Seeking a relationship that begins as friends , developes and grows to lovers, unfolds and opens up to life partners under the structure of a M/s D/s relationship". I believe enough has been stated herein to attract the kind of woman I'm interested in. Come say hello and let's see if something happens.
11/22/2013 9:52:58 AM

 Sadly, it has been my experience so far, few on here are real or willing to make any honest effort to communicate and even fewer are ready to actually venture into this life.  I haven't figured out why there are so many fakes on CM.  They write messages of "interest", and when the time comes to actually communicate honestly they disappear.  Does anyone have an answer? 

 

alisonbol
 
 Age: 32
  Georgia