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| Honesty, openness and trust are all very important, so I'm going to start things off with all three. It's not going to be exciting, thrilling or necessarily all that interesting, but I think it's best to put it out there at the beginning.
My life is complicated. I'm married, though the marriage has been effectively dead for a number of years. Children and finances have us at a point that while we agree that it's over, we can't afford to live separately. In addition to my desiccated corpse of a marriage, I am in an open, poly-amorous relationship with an amazing woman whom I happen to be madly in love with. It is largely at her insistence that no one person could possibly be enough for me that I have decided to start looking for someone I can get to more easily to play with. She and I see one another a couple of times a month at this point, at best, and with the situation being what it is, we can fully enjoy one another's company only a fraction of the times that we actually see each other.
I am, however, a very sexual person. Since my wife and I aren't physically involved any longer, I very seldom get to do anything to express just how sexual a person I am. At least in an active participation sort of way, so to speak. So, as I said above, I'm looking for someone who's a bit more readily available who would be able and willing to help me change that. I'm not entirely ruling out the possibility of something beyond friendship and play, but I'm not actively looking for anything more deeply involved, either.
Now that we've gotten through the bit that will probably send most people running and screaming in the opposite direction, more about me personally. While I have, in the past, generally seen myself as strictly Dom, I have recently come to the realization that I am far more a switch than I'd believed. I've been interested in/into the scene since I was a teenager, though mainly online (particularly in the beginning). I have had D/s relationships both long distance and, more recently, in person. I thoroughly believe in mutual pleasure and greatly enjoy finding out how many times I can get a woman off before she begs me to stop. I should also mention that the "interests" section on my profile isn't anything approaching a comprehensive list; I putzed around with it a bit, but I don't think I ever quite got done checking things off.
Then there's the personality part, of course. I have come to accept that I am something of an intellectual snob; my tolerance for morons, idiocy and willful ignorance seems to be increasingly low. I consider sarcasm to be every bit my native tongue as is English and tend towards rather dry humor. I am an admitted geek and won't apologize for it. I also happen to be a shameless flirt and don't always reserve my flirtations for women. Oh, and I am understanding to a fault.
If you've actually made it down this far, congratulations! Truly, you are to be commended. Odds are, you're either not exactly sane or possessed of a morbid curiosity (train wreck, anyone?), though I suppose some might equate that with being not entirely sane. If you've read this far out of more than simply morbid curiosity and actually have an interest in talking to me, then do feel free to send me a message. Whether you're interested in finding a new friend or, indeed, think you might enjoy doing more than just talking with me, I'd be happy to hear from you.
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