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Greetings to all the wonderful women on this site. I welcome friendships with subs, slaves, switches, dommes, and…? I’m open to casual sexual encounters as well, but, in the end, I’m hoping to find an actual relationship.
I’m an intelligent, creative gentleman who believes that, in the day-to-day world, women are every bit as capable as men. The woman I’m looking for will believe that too, but behind closed doors will embrace this alternative thing of ours.
I’m not a sadist or a brute, though I know how to use my hands (belt, wooden spoon, spatula…) to snap a girl to attention if her mind seems to have wandered from the task at hand. I also believe that, during those special moments, a woman should be handled (physically and emotionally) in ways that leave no doubt in her mind what her position is. My understanding of the lifestyle is experiential, rather than formally received. I’m not a practitioner of Old Guard, Gor, etc. Much respect to those who are, but that’s not me.
I have played with submissive women from time to time and have had two long term relationships. One was with a sub, the other with a woman who identified herself as a slave. I loved both of these women and the relationships I had with them. I miss the dynamic I enjoyed with them. With both of them the alternative aspect of our relationship was negotiated. We accommodated each other. However, there are certain non-negotiable aspects I would need in a long-term relationship. These are:
~She drives.
~She accompanies me to social and business related events and is completely vanilla in such settings.
~She demonstrates total devotion to cock (including oral).
~She provides some practical value to the household, whether it be working outside the home, housekeeping, helping me with my business…
~She has real breasts (and size is—I swear to God—completely unimportant).
~She is STD/hard drug free.
~She is comfortable in a 420-friendly environment (though she may or may not participate).
~She is non-racist.
~She doesn’t take herself or life too seriously.
I’m not looking for someone obsequious. If I’m wearing a smelly cologne, I don’t want her to suffer in silence, I want her to say, “Sir, can I try picking out a cologne for you?”
I also have a list of hard limits:
~Beating with fists or blunt objects
~Scat or blood play
~Knife play
~Minors
~Electrical play
~Strangulation
~Bestiality
~ADHD
~Bratty behavior
~Diapers
~Baby or tiny girl age play
~(Do I have to say it?) Necrophilia
Pretty much everything else is negotiable.
Life in my household revolves around reading, writing, movies, cultural events. I’m self-employed and very busy and hard working, but my hours are flexible and can sometimes be crazy, so my sub/slave may be called upon to perform any manner of service at any time--noon, four in the morning, whenever.
I want and need a lover, buddy, sub/slave, helper. Is that you?
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