My name is AJ and I am a 20yr old white female. To describe myself, I am 5'6, 126lbs, with 34b breasts, an with shoulder length blonde hair, nice full lips and I have blue eyes.
To describe briefly my life in general I would say that I am a happy person. I live with my boyfriend who is the most amazing man. He's been a big part of my life for the past several years, an although we are together in a vanilla world, I am also into this D/s lifestyle. He knows about the lifestyle but chooses not to be apart of it.
I am not looking for anything serious right now, but just to gain more friendships in the lifestyle and see how things go, but it doesnt mean something might happen.
To say more about my characteristics, I would have to say that I am intelligent, sociable, yet tend to be very shy at times. I am caring, romantic, passionate, loving. I am also very open-minded, sensitive, truthful and I think I have a pretty good sense of humor.
With other things that I like an enjoy, those would be: spending time with the man in my life, also, poetry (writing/reading), dancing, as I love to listen to music, relax at home and watching movies, draw, as well as shopping (being a big fan of Victoria Secrets and I love shoe shopping). I also enjoy cooking as well too.
With dislikes, I would have to say first and foremost liars, back stabbers, an those who like to toy with your emotions, besides those that not sincere, undecided and those too who are very immature.
I do have my limits, in other things, just as everyone else does too. As I said I am farily new to this lifestyle, although I have done a few things.
At times, with my firey attitude I could be Domme, or yet, at the same time, I would be happy serving, but it would have to depend on who I am with. I consider myself mostly just a submissive, yet in the right circumstance be a slave too; ultimately, I would like to find another special someone in my life, as I have a lot of love to give.
If it were a woman - She would mean more to me than anything. She is who I would have a serious relationship with. She would be very tender. She would be who I can share things with on a emotional and physical level. She would be kinky. She would be loving. She would be a sweetheart. She would be caring. She would be erotic. She would take care of herself both physically and mentally. She would be one that really listens. She would be one who can give me feedback, an we have good conversations with. She would be one that I can appreciate. She would have soft and gentle skin. She would have nice curves. She would work hard and what she does. She would be very flexable. She would have nice firm big breasts (for laying on them like a pillow hehe). She would be someone I can share with. She would be one that I love to snuggle and cuddle up with. She would be who I love to fall asleep and wake up too. She would be my lover, my best friend, another partner in my life. She would capture my heart. She would make me happy and make me feel alive.
Also in that same instance, I would like to find possibly a very Dominant Black Man as well too. I am not looking for anything full time or live in, (as I am with my boyfriend, so he would have to understand I have that side of me too), yet I would put him on a pedestal so to speak and make him realize that he is important in all ways, as I love to be sensual and use foreplay, to treat the man I am with right. To make him feel like the man he needs to be. That someone that I can get to know in an on going relationship, date, an be submissive too, for him to use me as he wishes.
... If you would like to write me I would love that very much, an Id love to find some girlfriends to get to know, (maybe have a house one day of just a lot of women .. an Black Men - hehe), otherwise, good luck in your search, ... And take care