How does one know if they are a submissive or a slave? In my experience, the most common single characteristic of a slave is that they don't like to make complex decisions. Not that they can't. Not that they won't. Just that they don't like to. They would rather have someone else do it. Even if it means that the other person doesn't make the best decision or makes a decision that the slave doesn't totally agree with. The true slave feels it is easier to be obedient to a decision which might have been better, than to make the decision themselves...
Hence the slave, who does not like to decide, finds the Master, who enjoys taking the risk of making decisions. |