First Things First,
BE LOCAL PLEASE

IF YOU ARE A MALE I WILL DELETE YOUR EMAIL AND WILL NOT READ IT!
IF YOU ARE FEMALE TROLLING FOR YOUR MALE PARTNER OR THREESOMES WITH A MALE PARTNER I AM NOT INTERESTED AND WILL DELETE YOUR EMAIL!

This might be a little long but I like to put it all out there, so as not to waste your time or mine.

I am not adverse to casual play or simply an intense scene at a local club but what I'd really like to find is a regular play partner. If I had a fairy godmother I would ask for an intelligent, experienced, very sadistic female Dominant who is looking for a female to serve her using sex/pain/violence/domestic duties and whatever else she sees fit on a regular basis. Perhaps once a week or a couple times a month as time permits. A girl can dream can't she. :)

I am active in the local scene and would prefer you be as well.

What I am NOT looking for is:
To move in, to be owned, men, newbies and someone without a life outside of BDSM.I am basically a happy person with a pretty good life and don't want any drama.

I don’t want to make this all about me and what I want but I know myself well enough to know who and where I would fit best. I am a service oriented slave by nature and derive great pleasure from pleasing my Top/Dominant but it would be best if who I am naturally serves your needs. I don’t want either one of us trying to be anyone other than who we are, that never ends well.

I am BI-SEXUAL, not Bi-Curious, Bi-for a man, Bi for show or Heteroflexible. If anything my sexual interests are more toward Females than Males.

I am a collared, owned, live in slave to a male Master I adore. I am his slave, his little girl, his pet and our relationship is based on love, worship, control (uber control freak), emotional S/M and his need to inflict pain when it pleases him to do so.(Drive By Sadist). He is not as physically driven as I am but is very understanding and accepting of what I need and I do this with his consent. With that said, please understand this is to be completely independent of him, when I am with you my focus is on you.

I am a very physical, sexual and tactile person and I would fit best with someone who is the same. I need an active way in which to serve whether it is cleaning your bathroom, taking a beating, or taking your strap-on. I can be willful but do my best to be respectful and of use.


I consider myself to be a heavier player but I hesitate to call myself a full physical masochist. I often times eroticize the pain but there is a place I like to go where I am not off in subspace or la la land but feeling every stroke and having the emotional masochist kick in to suffer through it.

I spend most days feeling like one of those lions at the zoo pacing back and forth in front of the glass and the places that an intense scene takes me is like a run through the jungle. I need the pain and not just the pain but the helplessness that the scene invokes in me. It is an emotional and mental release for me quieting my mind and calming me down.

I have enjoyed playing with service tops but it is not where I live. A whisper in my ear of “I am going to hurt you” knowing full well they can, is enough to push me over the edge. I want the fear, the anticipation and I need to suffer for someone. I need to be brought to my knees to a submissive, vulnerable, helpless, powerless tear soaked, cum soaked, groveling needy crawling puddle at your feet.

My Hard Limits are simple; scat/minors/animals.

Soft Limits that I would be willing to and am looking to explore with a regular play partner I trust; Watersports, Breath Play, Blood Type play including needles/cutting and Stapling(I really want to try this), Humiliation(I’ve only dabbled in it), Violent girl on girl Rape play, fear play.

Other interests: Canes, Belts and Whips, I’m a whore for anything that stings! I could go on and on. I have been in the lifestyle for several years but have not really played that much and there is so much I want to experience and am willing to try.
Then of course there are always the things that annoy the hell out or piss me off :)