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ABritInPhilly

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Regular Me

I'm a quick witted and lively, young minded thirty-something. I enjoy socialising with friends. I'm seriously not into clubs, but love being out and about on the town. There's nothing better than going to see a bit of fringe theatre, or soak up some art at one of the museums before heading down the pub to pick over the cultural experience. But it doesn't have to be highbrow--I like catching the latest Bond movie at the cinema as much as the next man. At work I'm what The Sun newspaper would call "a top boffin". It sounds a bit boastful to say that, but I had to work damn hard to get there, so why not brag a bit? The reality is that I spend all day sat in slightly run down office at a university. Worse still is that I'm in front of a computer for hours on end. But I'd be lying if I said anything other than that than I love my work. Oh, and my big passion is music. Nearly forgot that. Happiness is a great band playing an intimate gig. My life's pretty much dominated by music. I can find a Morrissey quote for any situation. It's hard to say what I'm into: one day it'll be Bob Dylan, the next Editors. There are even a few odd bits of electro I copied of my brother in the CD pile, and I love them even if I couldn't tell you who they're by. All of the above makes me sound like such a well rounded guy. So why am I hanging out on Collarme?

Kinky Me

I've come to the conclusion that I am, as people say, a bit kinky. Posting here is something new for me. It's all about finding people who have similar ideas of what fun is. What do I mean by kinky? Well there's tying people up for one thing. I've had the odd girlfriend who's wanted to try it, but while they're thinking about a bit of pink ribbon around the wrists I'm thinking about ten metres of rope. Then there are sexy outfits?I love 'em but my regular girlfriends can't be bothered with them. Or perhaps it's the fact I'm naturally dominant: not just in the bedroom, but in all most all of my life (I'm the leader at work or the one with the map figuring out the way when on holiday with mates). And then, of course, there's the spanking. Nothing gets me going like giving a bare bottom a good old swat. Actually, I quite like having my bottom spanked. I've no idea how that sits with the dom business. In fact, I've become aware that there's a whole world of kinky fun to be explored. I want to find people to explore it with who want to be there and are looking at the clothes peg and saying, ?That could be fun,? and not ?It's for keeping the washing on the line.? Generally, I've realized that for me there's more to a sex life than the missionary position and a good bit of head. I'm game for experimenting and discovering just what gets me going. So if you're happy with a fast learning newbie then maybe we should have a chat.?

What Am I Looking For?

I'm looking to get in touch with people who can help guide me into a more exciting personal life. As started to come across above, I want to explore my kinky side. I'm naturally dominant, so I guess I'm looking for someone submissive. But that doesn't have to be the case. I'm more interested in finding out new and exciting ways to have fun. What's really important is that you're prepared to accept I'm a bit new at this. I learn quick and I've got a good, naughty imagination but there's no way I'm going to come on like some kind of uber Master or super Sub on day one. So if you're interested you'll need to understand that Lots of people have stuff in this bit of their profile about just wanting to play or looking for a relationship. I'm open to anything, but obviously my exploratory state of mind could limit how committed I am at first. Whatever happens, to have serious vanilla time with me will need you to have a vanilla side too. There's no way my friends would be ready for me to turn up at a party with a date on a lead.?

Reasons To Be Cheerful?

Using my head Keeping in shape Fringe theatre London The Smiths Good food (veggie of course) Intelligent conversation Loud guitars Travelling to foreign lands Enjoying what Blighty has to offer Going down the pub BBC 4 Being with friends The Glastonbury festival

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DawnStorm
 
 Age: 42
 KW Area, Canada