30secondsub on Collarspace


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	i chose the handle "30secondsub" because i'm not even a minute man. During intercourse, i can last only about 30 seconds before climaxing. Although straight, i've always lacked the courage and confidence to approach women. When i was a teen, i was exposed to some femdom photos and was immediately hooked, however except for one stretch several years ago when i participated in R/L play at a BDSM club, i've resorted to online domination or just surfing femdom on the net. i've been into CBT and other forms of pain from the beginning, and in recent years have been into chastity, orgasm control, tease & denial, and being humiliated. i've been buying time on certain websites to have women dominate me. The session usually involves clothespins on my cock, swinging weights from my balls, alligator nipple clips, dressed in women's lingerie, and being made to lick and suck a lifelike cock. i got married recently, but my wife has failed to domme me like we discussed, which leads me to satisfy my femdom desires online. However, we have recently discussed her locking me into a chastity device. i know that i deserve this, but it is difficult to actually give up control (and my desires). Do you think this is something i should do? Why? i have struggled coming to terms with my submissive sexual nature, partly because my personality is more dominant than submissive. But fantasizing about being a sub turns me on to no end. And the fact that i can't last more than about 30 seconds inside a woman seems to indicate that i was made to serve them rather than vice versa. How do i know that i'm a sub? How do i come to terms with it? Should i be in chastity? i'm seeking someone who is interested beginning an online relationship (and possibly R/T later) and will help me come to terms with my submissive sexual nature... and to convince me to give up control... someone who will put me in my place... someone who will humiliate and inflict pain on me... someone who will train me to be the submissive i was meant to be.