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Uniquely looking for a male sub as a life partner and a Dom to rule over us. I know I'm asking for an odd mix, but I'm willing to wait for the right situation.

Male Sub
I am looking for a male sub that wants to commit to a real life partnership in all ways. You MUST be between the ages of 36 and 47 and physcially close enough. Ultimately we will get married and spend our lives together, so this is not a 'one night stand' situation. I have kids and need a sub that can be a real man as well as a good role model.
Dom
I am also looking for a Dom will over see us both. This can either be a local Dom or further as long as you are within the US. How it would ultimately work is still a mystery but I'm certain there are ones out there.

I do better with the DaddyDom type, older than me, that likes to pamper and play with his baby girl. As long as you are in the US, distance isnt an issue (for online mostly situation) for local daddy please have the time for me that I crave. Non USA, no thanks, the time difference is too much of a pain. I'm a little on the spoiled bratty side :)

So, I want all parties to know and be involved in what is going on. If the Dom wants to play match maker, I am ok with that as long as we all understand that this will ultimately end in me and the male sub getting married and living 'happily submissively ever after' and that our vanilla lives need to be kept sacred and cared about.

That's a tall order I know, but I'm not looking for Doms to approach me wanting to 'make me their slave' and trying to change the situation. Also not looking for a Dom that just wants me and not a male sub too. How much actually goes on between each of us can be talked about, but it's the whole package. Please understand, I am being so honest up front so that no one can say I wasn't.

Male subs, you can contact me and we can start to talk. I am a switch, so I can also Domme you but please know that there will be a DaddyDom involved. If that bothers you, then you need to pass on me.

Ok... let's see what happens now! :) Oh, as for me, I love to snuggle, kiss, be protected and cared about. I love attention too
2/12/2011 2:25:36 PM

I'm trying not to get discouraged. Hard to find a male sub that is also 'family oriented' and 'manly'. Also seems there aren't many daddys that want to be a part of this type of situation.  It's ok. I know what I want, so I'm ok with waiting. rawr... {#}

11/27/2010 12:47:35 AM

I know that what I'm looking for is a bit unique, even here. What I don't understand is the rude replies I am getting from people I haven't contacted. They feel the need to send me emails and laugh or make fun of what I have posted. Really? This is CM, this is supposed to be where people can be very open and honest about what they are looking for and shouldn't have to worry about ridicule. Not everything is for everyone, to each there own..etc.. but really? How mean :(