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It is not the kiss of the whip, but the whispered word.
To please ones flesh lasts but a moment to touch ones soul lasts a lifetime.

I am a Dom, a provider, partner, a disciplinarian, mentor, guide, sadist, lover and a friend. I chose this Lifestyle at 19 but was it chosen or a birth right, perhaps some of each. I come by it honestly and naturally.

I am a Dom in all s of my life from business to personal. I try to respect all and treat people with the respect they do or do not deserve. I am educated, sane, disease free, successful and enjoy life, travelling, dining in or out and seduction. I am a homebody and enjoy my residence. I also workout on a regular basis. I have seen and experienced to much in my life to accept disrespect from any man or woman, I do not care about the level of anger from another. I own my own business and am blessed to have a wonderful home. I am a Sadist. Understand that pain and pleasure are two sides of a double edged sword, that meet in the middle.

Time, pain and patience have been my teachers. I was taught that longevity is the key to success.

I am well versed in most aspects of BDSM, corporal punishment as well the sensual arts. I love to scene and enjoy it all from the planning, the physical preparation and the binding that may follow. The beginning of the control and the subtleties of the reading of the movement of breath, the slight change of the pupil in the eye, the intrigue, the thrill and the dance of it as it moves from sensual to extreme and back again. The feel of the leather, the flesh the embrace...the trust and yearning to please that is displayed from a touch or a word. Yes the sex and passion and the aftercare that follows. And of course in life, times where it is just the movement of the dance, the kiss and the passionate embrace of two as one.

Ah, the beauty and delight of how her body shakes uncontrollably at my slightest touch when she is under my hand. The smile on her face when she turns to see me is of unquestioned fulfillment.

In a partner I seek intelligence, drive, desire, passion, honesty, the willingness to observe and listen when needed, the understanding that behavior has consequences and a mutual physical attraction. One that can exist in all parts of my life from escorting me in a professional setting to a day fishing or with the dogs. I travel regularly and must have a mate than relishes the opportunity. A partner that wants to experience all that life has to offer and embraces the opportunity to do so. I respect intelligence and am not intimidated by a successful woman however, I do not need My partner to work if she does not wish to. She can assist in our life and running the home.

I am a great animal lover and do have dogs that are a very big part of my life. I raise, train and compete in working dog competitions with my German Shepherds so if you truly are not a dog person we are not a match.

Rant I find it amazing how many posts I read from those that have suffered abuse and insults here from so called Doms. I have been in the lifestyle for many years and remember when it was one of respect.

If any of this intrigues you please drop me a line. I do not have a pic here due to my work but I will gladly provide one after we are comfortable chatting, you will not be disappointed.
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AlicesWonderlad
 
 Age: 25
 South Africa