Collarspace.com

yearningdesires


Would love to find a NSA occasional play partner, a confident, bossy, demanding, sexually assertive dominant who is seeking a woman who is the "strong woman during the day, total slut behind closed doors" type.

Not hugely into pain, but can manage a fair amount. Probably above average, but not by a lot.

(Full disclosure, I am a switch, and mostly top. This is my bottomy profile. I take it seriously, and it means a lot to me. My needs are as vastly different as my play. If you write me and call me names without my consent, I will delete you. I am only your toy if I agree to be your toy. Period. Same with one word emails. Once I'll chalk up to you being in a hurry. Twice, and i am bored and will stop responding. If you want me to be interested, please be interesting).


Seeking older professional type....love the ages between 50-60, bigger body type, the professor looking genre, perhaps someone who visits the Portland area for business once a month, etc. Love the 'bear' look. Those are my turn on's.

I am not wiling to travel much outside of Southern Maine. Just being honest about that.
Please don't be married and cheating. It's the cheating part that won't work.

I have a full and content life, so I am fine if this search does not bring me anything. I continue to want to find a top who can top in the way I want to be topped, and have it be an "easy in, easy out" kind of thing. But if I don't, that is okay too.

Thanks for reading!

11/27/2015 6:12:44 PM
My apologies for not emailing back to those who have written. I really would like to, but Collarspace is really, really misbehaving and I WISH some hard core dominant sadist out there would put a major beat down on this site. It is simply not loading, not functioning properly, and it takes forever to do anything you ask it to do. Or, it doesn't work at all. I tend to disappear from this site for long periods of time, but have been maintaining a profile (I have had a couple) for 10 years. It really might be time to say goodbye again....it's really frustrating to try and hang out here....why is it so inefficient?? Too bad, too. I otherwise enjoy it a great deal. Sigh.