hi im debbie a post-op transexual legaly a woman .i mention post-op transexual as i want to be honest. i had my surgery in dec 2016 i am divorced so now a single female i work for a casino in atlantic city as a training executive.i like music and plays.i am divorced and still friends with my ex wife she is still my best friend. we are only girlfriends now no sex.i have no attraction to women. i date only men.not into pain or bondage .i am submissive and prefer older men of any race. i dont enjoy bondage or severe pain .i am not a slave just a submissive woman who offers service out of love.please i am not interested in submen,women ,and gay or bi men .just real men who want a woman to stay by their side knowing he is in total command
7/6/2023 12:42:08 PM
Hi everyone, i took a break .tried a relationship for awhile .i liked it but wrong person .so everything is the same just 2 years older and alot smarter lol
1/30/2018 5:52:35 AM
some times i read the profiles and some of you guys are the biggest assholes. sometimes i want to answer the profile meet and break his ass. money pigs are the worst ...do you think i would pay to see your cock? ok god gave you a big one but he made your brain too small.most guys are cool in here but there are a few . i respect a guy that says he is married at least he is honest ,i would never meet with him because once a cheater always a cheater .i dont know if my future husband is on here or not but i am not packing up after chatting with anyone for a few days that is just insane.but i would relocate after a period of time. i know at times i sound bitchy but i am probably the nicest person you will ever meet
1/26/2018 5:56:16 AM
hi i really appreciate the response but i am not looking for a bisexual guy or a submissive. there are many here that do. i am attracted to older men .any races but i date mosrtly black because they are the ones who ask me out . i like real men balding, overweight is ok i dont want a guy prettier than i am lol. i dont like bondage or pain other than that i willingly give of myself a steady relationship is what i am looking for hope we can chat
12/26/2017 2:42:11 AM
i am real. i am a great friend and someone you should know. i will not pick up and move in a week.i will relocate for the right person.but that takes time to take care of things and i must trust the other person. i do date white men but i do have a fetish for a black man. it is the way they can be loving and next minute put me in my place.if i met a white guy that was exciting i would date. i am a 50's type of woman i love to clean and cook for a man .i do not care for pain but will bare a spankng no bondage at all . i would love to find a husband here but it is like finding a needle in a hay stack
12/14/2017 3:32:33 AM
a guy asked me out today at work he didn't know i transexual and he didn't believe me when i told him.e still wants to date .i told him after the holidays i will see if i am availabe i am going to just say i am back with my old boyfriend,i am not i am looking for my black stallion to come into my life there is still time
8/2/2017 3:15:46 PM
had off today and davids bridal had thier 99 dollar sale i bought a wedding dress .yes i hope to wear it with a really nice guy walking down the aisle i think it looks good and nothing will show off a black groom more than standing next to me in a white dress
5/18/2017 3:06:04 AM
have not been on much and its time i edit my prof=file .i have had my surgery last december and am fully a woman now still looking for mr right
6/23/2015 1:14:42 PM
simply put . as a guy i was aggressive and demanding ,not a rascist but jealousy had made me unhappy to see white women with black men as partners and those who did well they were sluts i went into marines as a combat cleaner which means i would go into afghanistan and shoot anything that could cause a soldier to get hit .sometimes it meant killing a child or woman even elderly but if they had a weapon and were going to fire . i had no choice i was doing what i was trained for and as a martial ares specialist hand to hand combat was not for a trophy but to survive . when my tours were over i came home to a different world .my wife had cheated on me and has a boyfriend [black] the entire time i was gone ,but i didnt know it.seemed everyone else knew but me . but i got depressed thinking of those things i had to do and people i killed and i was dying from the inside . my therapist suggested a hobby , that didnt work . so my wife around halloween asked what i wanted to go to a party her friends were throwing and had to wear a costume, i said i didn't care what ever!! she at one time had been a cheerleader and still had the uniform and it was my size about a week before we showered together and she rubbed a gel all over me and all my hair went down the drain she said you need to be smooth for your costume. well she told me for fun she had made a appointment day before the party to get hair done and make up and nails she was going as a 80's girl ok guess i looked good we went to the party and everyone treated me as debbie mary's sister as how i was introduced seems her friends mostly black and hispanic didn't think she was married.well a older black man kept talking to me when mary disappeared and i went looking caught her on her knees with her boyfriend we argued and she left me and went with him so i was stuck 50 miles from home dressed like a cheerleader and my phone and wallet was in the car she took off in . well the older guy said he would give me ride after the party well we drank a lot and i think he gave me something i woke up in a parking lot with him sucking my tits apparently i had already sucked his cock and dont remember doing it but i was so lonely and it felt good i just became debbie annd it was like a new person all my depression went away we didnt fuck that night but we made out and i sucked him a few times while he called me princess that would have made me mad but that night it made me proud .told my therapist about it and she said lets explore being debbie and found out that debbie has no past military feelings and by being her i could be free . she said lets recreated debbie so i decided i wanted her to be submissive, and never challenge but let the man be in charge . i did not want to be a lesbian but average white girl and she says as a white girl you can be the ones with a black man that you ere jealous about. so i became her i taught myselg to love only men and not women my wife came back a few months later but we lived as sisters we still share a house but i have a garage apartment and her and her boyfriend live in the larger house . we are selling and will be going are on ways after the sale . there that is my life story
3/10/2015 9:19:43 AM
hi please dont write to me if you are a sub or switch not interested , not interested in guys who see me as a transexual i am but those guys wont be happy with me after surgery and straight men this is time to act . women i am interested only as friends female body does not excite me any longer
