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right now i'm confused. went to the football game the other day and saw my Master. Yes i know he has tickets which i've had the pleasure of using more than once. i went with a friend who had an extra ticket and invited me. what my Master didn't know was i could see his seat from where i was sitting. Master normally takes his son, no problem. However this game there was a female with Master that slave didn't know. Master offered up that she was a secretary of a business associate who buys Master's other seats. now i'm torn as to is this the truth or not. As i sit here i've been told by Master he will be at said business associate's home for a party this evening so what is the chance she will be there, because slave is not an invite person to this party. after 6 yrs am i being replaced? i don't know... is it easier to but the blinder's on and keep going or this the other women something i can't be..... |
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Master was given the chance to use another slave. Bless Master's heart he turned it down because to do so would not be treating his slave fairly!  This slave so melted into a puddle of goo  when she was told! This is after Master and slave have had a long talk about it and slave was ok wth it weather slave was present or not. This is one lucky slave.  |
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If you get a rude reply it's because you sent a rude message to start with. Insulting me only gets you blocked and report for vuglar langauge to Collarme. |
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last week i got some bad news from the doc. i have to have a second cervical biosopy. god i'm scared to death! i know the first one came up clean but that was 2 years ago. every pap i've had since then has been abnormal  Master has done every thing he can to reassure me that it's going to be ok. i'm so lucky to have a Master that understands this slaves fears and will deal with an upset and crying slave on the drop of a hat when things like this happens.
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Master hurt my feelings today and most likey doesn't realize it, i wanted to take my Master out for dinner, because i wanted to do something differnt for Master, well i got a respond of "NO MASTER takes slave out not other way", i would have rather been told no thanks. i know it's not a big deal, but i had been having a hard day and just wanted my Master company, oh well i'll cry a few more tears tonight and let it go. |
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Master called me today they are back in Flordia, so i'll be seeing him tomorrow at least long enought pick up his mom and grandma at the airport. i can wish for a longer visit but i know it won't happen because his son will be there to and they will need to get home. so i'll be happy for just a quick hello and goodbye, but it will be good to know he's home. |
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well tuesday i got the best phone call at work, Master called me from St. Thomas! i think i floated thru the rest of the day and evening. then last night at midnight his time he texted me a Happy New Year's message...it's been rough but just hearing from him twice has really helped knowing he will be home sunday.
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well this week is going to be long and hard on this slave, Master has left with his mom, grandma, and youngest son for a cruise. slave drove Master's mom and grandma to airport today, but they don't know that he is in the lifestyle, so i didn't even get a kiss could bye, but i do understand we don't so much attection around anyone else but the kids, lol but that is the way we are, but i would still would have liked to have a private moment with Master before everone left but it didn't happen. so it's going to be a long week, i'm use to talking with Master everyday either by computer or phone and this won't happen this week. sorry for the rambles just needed some were to express my feelings besides my journal to Master. |
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WOW, i can believe it's been a year since Master agreed to take me on as just a sub! a few months ago W/we moved from D/s to M/s and i couldn't be more happy! just wish W/we both weren't so dang busy! i think that the Fates keep testing U/us to see if we really belong together...but it will work out in the end i know it because W/we both are commited to making it work!
later ya'll!
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WOW, i can believe it's been a year since Master agreed to take me on as just a sub! a few months ago W/we moved from D/s to M/s and i couldn't be more happy! just wish W/we both weren't so dang busy! i think that the Fates keep testing U/us to see if we really belong together...but it will work out in the end i know it because W/we both are commited to making it work!
later ya'll!
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i think the STRESS is trying to kill me! between trying to pack, find a place to live and starting a new job in 2 weeks! Sir is just great, when i found a place i want to look at he goes in and check it out for me to let me know if it's worth my time! and He is doing everything He can to make this move go as easy as possible for me! |
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well the contract is done, not signed yet but getting there and getting things in place to move from a sub to a slave.
on the postive side i make the decision to change and things really roll. in two weeks i've had 2 interviews for my dream job! wow that past 4 weeks have really moved since i made the choice to change! |
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 well...i did it! made the decision to move from a subbie to a slave  so know W/we do the contract  will keep everone update.
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Wow were to start. Not been here for a while. It looks more and more like Sir and i are going to move from Dom/sub to Master/slave...i didn't think i would ever find that one person that i could kneel and call Master... but i think it has happened! |
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i can't be happier! things are going on great with Sir! to find someone who understands that my time is not always my time because of family and lets me be me when i need to is great! i hope things contuine to go well! |
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lol live is good, after several test He as accepted me! |
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ok after being mad, feed up and furstated, i'm HAPPY! i have found a Dom that will but up with me. He has treated me like a lady from the beginning. our session have been VERY easy on me to start with, just to make sure we suit each other. i was really beginning to think He wasn't out there. i had to cancal our first meet 3 times before it finally happenned! must Dom's would have written me off by then, but he stuck with me (lol). i feel like flying right now! |
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Ok, I'm over being mad. I just had to get it out of my system. Still looking for the right Dom. Really beginning to wonder if he is out there....I just keep weeding out those who just want a toy...to use once or twice and throw away...Only time will help me find the right one. |
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I'm tried the shit from members of this site. There are those the start the contact and think my life is going to fall in place so I can meet with them....MY FAMILY IS FIRST! no Dom that I've not meet with yet... so to you go jump of the bridge! |
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Ok, I know I sound like a bitch but here goes. I spent time chatting with a DOM. We even had a face to face meeting set. To have him cancalled. And now his profile from this site is GONE. I'm getting to the point of just going away, I'm thinking I just don't really need to play with anyone. |
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A few days ago I was sent a email from a jerk, commenting on my outfit in my pic. If you find my looks that offensive DON'T CONTACT ME. I'll just block you so I don't have to listen to your insults! |
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I would like to give Sir Joe from this site credit for this article!
Thank you Sir Joe for this article, it sums up alot of sub/slaves. I know that if given any command like that I don't respond to emails.
"Approaching a Prospective sub"
Reposted by request: Article I wrote for another site.
I am Sir Joe. I have been on this site for a over a year or so now, and I have had several conversations with multiple submissives. The one thing that they all have in common is the incredible exasperation and frustration they feel regarding the emails and IM's they get from male Dominants.
(I am directing my comments to Male Dom's, not Domme's the rules are somewhat different for Domme's, and my comments here only generally apply you.)
Gentelmen, this is after all a fetish website, BUT, if you are really the Dominant you claim to be, and a member of the lifestyle that promotes "Safe", "Sane", and "Consensual" or the more aptly, RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) then how is it that so many of you begin an introductory email or instant message with commands you have not been given consent to make?
Hi I'm "OverLord PuffandStuff" now, "On your knees bitch!" or "I want to stick my dick in your ass!" or my personal favorite "Be a good whore, and reply to me NOW!" are not the kind of phrases that any woman, sub or not will respond to. SO STOP IT!
Just because she is a submissive does not mean she is (or ever will be) submissive to you.
I have been in this lifestyle for nearly a decade, and I have met every woman I have dated since 2000 (including my last wife) online. Why, because no matter who I am talking to I offer her the same respect I want for myself.
You would no more walk up to a woman at the Mall, and tell her to get on her knees, how can you assume that this will be a winning strategy onlibe? Is it because this is a fetish site? Poor assumption, if that's what your thinking.
This is a lifestyle based entirely on trust! Who in their right mind would trust you if your first comment was so derogitory that it was offensive. Don't get me wrong, in a scene,
when consent has been gven, you can talk to your sub in whatever way turns you or her on. However, do you expect to get to a point where your having a real time encounter with a sub, if you are so blunt and disrespectful in your initial introduction? Or even before you have established a basis for that kind of discussion, or email.
Like I said, I have been on (this site) now for a while (this time, 2 years the last time) and recently, I have met several women in person, and am chatting with others, whom I expect to meet, (in search of that perfect slave for my household that is the counter-balance to my Dominance.) and there is no doubt that in their minds, or fannies for that matter that I am Dominant. But I didn't make any overtly sexual or BDSM related comments in my initial introduction. WHY? Because when it comes to female submissives, they are not about to offer trust, or themselves to anyone who can't even respectful enough to introduce themselves in non threatening manner.
It doesn't matter if the sub has said, "write
me, and tell me what you violent degrading things you want to do to me." why, because unless your writing a letter just to get her off, then odds are your not going to be anything
more than the sender of a dirty letter. If you really want to meet her and do those things, you need to understand TRUST! It might work occasionally (1/10, 000) but that is pretty
poor odds. and it will be (0/1, 000, 000) if it is a newbie or novice sub, who is nervous to begin with.
If you can't make a vanilla (I use the word to make my point clear) introduction of yourself to a female submissive, and establish that your not some wack job or psycopath, then don't write them at all. It is the conclusion of
those of us truely in the lifestyle, that anyone who can't see the reality of trust and consent in the process is nothing more than a wanna-be, who is making the rest of us look bad.
(Funny the ones who really need to read this probably don't read the articles...)
I am personally offended by any man that has no other articulate way to introduce himself to a woman than to say, "get on your knees bitch!".
If that is your standard introduction grow up. If your offended by what I've said, then you're exactly who I am talking about and guilty of being an ass-hole.
DOM doesn't mean DICK. If you can't be Dominant, or assertive without being a dickhead, turn off your computer, jack off an go to sleep, because in the end, that is all your going to be doing anyway.
I am Sir_Joe (sir_joe_1211 at yhaoo) I am active in the real scene and vice president of IMAS (Indiana masters and slaves/ submissives/ switches) and I am a real Dom seeking exactly what I stated in my profile - and if you have any comments feel free to let me know. But know this, I am right.
Ultimately, respect and trust, will be the only way you get the consent you need have a real life encounter with a sub.
Sincerely,
Sir Joe
(submissives feel free to copy this and repost it in your journal section provided you credit me as author.)
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Wow, i got to play with a great Dom/sub couple not that long ago from this site! I look forward to seeing them again.
I've meet some great people, and some that aren't so great. I keep looking and chatting for those great ones.
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i'm so glad to have found this site, i've had more new hits on this site then i've had on the other 2 sites that i'm listed on!
to all the Dom's that have read my profile and expressed and instrest thank you! i wish i could meet all of you!
i hope this site brings me alot of new experiances! |
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