How I feel about being a Daddy,
A real Master is much more sensitive and caring than a macho type of man. This can seem ironic at first but there is a big difference between aggressive dominant behavior and the behavior of a true Master who often waits quite a long time before asserting his dominance.
Submissive women always find a wonderful, but often subtle way of showing that they want you to take control but it is up to the Master to interpret nuanced behavior in order to uncover the details of what she wants through his own perceptions and experience. Every woman is unique and every submissive woman has unique needs, desires, fantasies and hopes. The only thing submissives have in common is the desire that the right type of dominant man will unveil their submission and push them to explore the extreme limits of their deeply rooted desires. Pain is just one example, but a good one. Every submissive woman I have ever been with had a different level of tolerance for pain and a different psychological reaction to the role or pain in an M/s relationship.
A true Master is intensely tuned in to the unspoken aspects of a relationship and is constantly adjusting his approach. A true Master always has the goal of getting as deep inside the head of his slave as he possible can. Wearing leather and carrying a whip and hand cuffs at the ready has nothing to do with it. Real Masters understand that what is happening on the surface when you observe an M/s relationship it is usually just a hint of what is going on deep inside the mind of the slave. Speaking for myself, the physical submission is very exciting but it is tapping into the psyche of a truly submissive woman that is most fulfilling. |