It is the choices one makes that determines ones own happiness and success. Others may influence those choices but it ultimately one's own responsibility to make the choice. It is my choice to seek one to trust, to admire, to respect and to conceivably love. To give myself to them and to serve them. To accept and follow their wishes knowing that it will please them. It is my choice to accept the colors left from a flogging / spanking or the art they may have placed upon me. It is my choice to give myself for their use as they desire. It is my choice to have this person "strip away" some of my traits and mold me in their liking. It is my choice to serve to enhance the quality or their life and by so doing enhance the quality of mine. The ONE I am seeking will influence and direct but it is my choice to submit and freely give.