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Im very interested in finding kinky people to introduce me to the local scene and just be generally cool with. Also actively looking for submissives for chat or RT PLATONIC friendship. Eventually, I would very much like to find a Dom or Domme I can fully submit to and be owned. Until then Ill be having fun and learning all I can about BDSM and power dynamics.
Open to and curious about femdomme couples, but only as a SUBMISSIVE.
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Met up with a local rope group last night. Had a blast! Knowlwdgable men and women who have a lot of respect for the lifestyle, it's traditions and the respect it's SUPPOSED to represent. Afterward , 3 of the ladies and I talked endlessly about their experiences on this site and fetlife. Two of us were submissives one was a switch and one a Domme. And incredibly we all had many of he same stories about the exact same idiots with the exact same stupid approaches to us. We all were introduced to fetlifes "return to sender" group and we've been laughing like old friends ever since. So thank you to the silly boys on this site who don't have the first clue what the lifestyle is about but pretend to have dozens of years of xperience. Even though you'll never get anywhere, you've brought the women together. I look forward to spending more time with these ladies. 😁
Here are a few things I learned last night. Some of this is speculation, but quite a bit of it has been proven time and time again according to our combined experiences and anecdotal experience through people we've met twice and three times removed.
1. You guys who cut and paste the same response to every woman you see in he site seem to think you're fooling us into believing it's original. Because once we call you out on your transparency you get offended and butthurt and insult us then block us with your bruised little twins between your legs. It's amazing how many of us have heard from he exact same guys with he exact same messages and you reacted the exact same way. So despite your best efforts to hurt us for seeing through you, we are laughing hysterically at you. And continue to.
2. "I don't do all that physical stuff, im more concerned with the mental aspects of BDSM." 95 percent of the time that's someone who, despite their insistence they have hundreds of years of experience, has zero. And they know if they were asked to hold a flogger or do a single column tie or even do a little bare bottom spanking they would be exposed as the fakes that they are. If you e got no experience, just say so. There's no shame in that and you open yourself up to a whole world of learning.
3. Predators who are simply here because they heard this was a great place to get laid by girls who will do anything they want and they need to show no respect in return....I'm. It going to sit here and tell you all the things you're doing wrong. But we see you instantly. And that's why you're all whining that "this site is so full of fakes." Ironically, were saying that because we see that you're a fake and dangerous and pathetic. So keep doing what you're doing.
4. Men's egos are as delicate as crystal. If we say we're not interested, you get so sad and lash out aggressively calling us the same names that we don't even hear anymore because they've lost their sting. "Fat, slut, dyke skank, blah blah bla. What you don't realize is it just makes you look pathetic and does absolutely nothing to harm us. Stop being so sad guys. It's embarrassing. |
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Ive had no less than a dozen "Dominants" tell me that I wasn't submissive enough or that I was pretending to be a sub. Strange, because I've been with true Doms/Dommes who had no problem bringing me to my knees. Sorry to point out the obvious: I'm plenty submissive, you're just not dominant enough to command my respect.
My girlfriend and I are comparing notes and most of the same guys who whined to me also whined to her! Fellas. Have some dignity. Put in some effort. Stop embarrassing yourself. Because (spoiler alert) subs talk to other subs. And chances are good we're laughing at you. |
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Got another one! "LifeNotPlay" threw a temper tantrum because I didn't reply to him within 20 minutes (not an exaggeration). Then blocked me before I could reply.
Why is it always the men? I've had some amazing fun with the women Dommes I met here. No drama. Level head. Mature. No matter the age, guys just never seem to grow up.
So here's an open letter to the "dominant" who felt I should have fallen to his feet at first glance. It's the message I tried to send before he hid behind the block button like scared little puppy:
"Lol. So adorable. So you think you're owed a thank you? And If you don't get satisfaction instantly, you stomp your feet like a 3 year old?
Come on. Enough with the prank. Very funny. You're not really 53 are you? Seriously, stop messing around on the computer, kid. It's past your bedtime.
I get 50 emails a day from guys who try to tell me "what's good for me." And very one is a clone of the same bad advice the last one sent.
Not one woman who has approached me has brought any drama even after we've played. These are some serious genderbenders... Isnt it us who are supposed to be moody and insecure, and you "Men" who are tough and in control? Further: Isnt it the submissive who's supposed to whine because she feels lonely, and the dominant who's trying to teach patience and maturity?
Wow. Mind is blown. Is ones definitely getting posted to fetlife."
Update: The little boy has unblocked me twice now to send me a message, then blocked again before I could reply. Ugh. The stink of cowardice is making me nauseous. |
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| Age: 24 |
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