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I run the Marysville/Yuba City munch. Ask me for more information please.
I'm looking for a strong dominant willing to take the time to bring me out, mold me. NOT just looking for play or sex.
Right up front, I am married. My husband must approve of you too. (hey we all have to get along, right?) AND I'M NOT LOOKING FOR A SUB!
As we get older I find you end up with more physical issues. Guess that's life! Annoying, but you deal with it.
i have a mind, its strong, open, passionate, and it is real. i am not just a doormat! this mind of mine is not judgmental, not locked into anything, and my limits are real and well thought out.
I see and know the truth of myself most of the time.
in a way i have wanted others to see within me, but they only see my surface
and never look into my essence so i am left wanting...
can you transform me to help see past what others have put on me and allow me to let go of the baggage?
visit with the real me to be able to express myself in joy rather than in pain or longing.
a friend commented, "its easy to see you; you are like an arclight bulb or a xenon bulb, you burn quite bright. My query is how can they not see you?"
are You willing?
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Just thought I'd put out there that is the Marysville munch this weekend April 26th. Contact me for more info. |
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Updated the local Sacramento, CA area munches again. Please contact me if interested. |
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Well the Marysville Yuba City CA munch is today@ changed the venue, hope it wasn't a mistake as its a small cafe and turns out we may have more than i thought. grr. oh well guess thats a good thing. i'd like to go to a lingerie store downtown that is kinky too LOL then to a bookstore going out of business. pout. its thier last day.
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well haven't been on this profile much because it isn't working right. please try me at flowrsub. don't know what to say!! its kind of strange |
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Wow its amazing. i just finished updating the local contact list for munchs and such. so if you're looking for Sacramento CA area contacts let me know!
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Wow its amazing. i just finished updating the local contact list for munchs and such. so if you're looking for Sacramento CA area contacts let me know!
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So, why is it people like to look at what is unattainable? ok, i'm married! i do mention it in my profile, am upfront about it, and honest. more than i can say about quite a few on here. yet, instead of focusing on me, and getting to know me, first off they want to change my situation. ok, so no one said it was going to be easy. but i'm not some nut, i have RT experiences, and situations tend to work themselves out. |
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so, i run the Marysville, CA munch group. we seem to have a few new members yeah! i hope that they participate a bit. going to have a munch and see what happens. haven't had one in awhile actually.
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it is truly refreshing to talk to dominants that do not wish instant respect as in Sir Master etc.
conversation and getting to know one is the basis of that Sir.
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i wish more Dominants would learn that you need to get to KNOW someone. why would i submit to a virtual stranger. ::sigh::
By Oscar Hammerstein
from the King and I
Getting to know you,
Getting to feel free and easy.
When I am with you,
Getting to know what to say
Haven't you noticed
Suddenly I'm bright and breezy
Because of all the beautiful and new
Things I'm learning about you
Day by day.
Getting to know you,
Getting to feel free and easy.
When I am with you,
Getting to know what to say
Haven't you noticed
Suddenly I'm bright and breezy
Because of all the beautiful and new
Things I'm learning about you
Day by day.
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So, after being sick around Christmas time, life has been slow. Darn this cough though just wont go away.
A new year, wow, new beginning, a new way to look at things, new things to do? We can do what we put our minds to. We just have to get our minds there.
I hope everyone had a great Holiday season whatever You celebrate.
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well winter is here it seems. wow, almost freezing here! Its been so flippin foggy too.
Winter
cold foggy blue breath
hair goes puff moisture ridden
sweet breath seen in air
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hm i'm thinking i should try the audio or video part of this. though it seems my two cams don't want to play right with other programs! think my Macintosh needs an upgrade! just OSX 10.4 ..
well, just thought i'd check in here again is all. things seem to be in a better space lately. winters setting in and i'm more chipper! i love winter!
hugs
~flowr
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man i hate hospitals! my brother had an operation Wed, i spent 13 hours waiting. between the Dr not coming down, like he is supposed to, to talk to me, to them not having a room...(um operation scheduled -> empty room?) the whole experience was a huge big "we don't care" un real
hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving.
we're going to a kinky Turkey dinner tomorrow i think.
~flowr
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its my birthday today! well and my sons, but it still MY special birthday allll my own hehehehe.
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what a weekend! sometimes i hate having diabetes!
Tonight was strange. Took my normal diabetes pills for dinner. Had a small amount of chicken pot pie home made. Wasn’t real hungry. Had some chocolate later, ~ 15 g carbs.
i had fallen asleep then woke up and went to the bathroom. remember feeling weird...wanted to call Chris, my DH. I guess i walked into the kitchen and got my glucose tablets, then the office. don't remember a thing. Chris said i was unresponsive. He said I was just sitting there and was real pale and sweaty. He finally figured out i’d stuck a tablet in my mouth but wasn’t eating it so he gave me a drink of water. Then my son came in and figured out what was going on. He found the cake icing and squeezed some in my mouth then got me some ice cream. At that point I was not coherent. I’m thinking my sugars went super low i guess!!!
Very bizarre night all in all.
lets be careful out there guys and make sure you check your blood sugars before play. Dom OR sub!!!
be pretty bad if the sub is tied to the cross and the Dom passes out....
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down, unsatisfied, needy, subfrenzi, depression?
What is it that brings the aforementoned to the forefront? how does one handle it.
changes, differences, Alpha, acknowledgment new Maltese, my Schipperke is not sure He is ok with this.
How does one know that a change is a good thing? if only it is that clear.
one needs to look at all changes and how they’ effect the person as a whole, down the line.
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Well, looks like I think about this once a month ☺
So, common sense… Why is it sometimes we just throw it to the wind?
Everything is in front of us, smacking us in the face. Yet, we still continue on. What is common sense when we find an ass? What are the red flags, what are the signal flares, how do we see them clearly?
What makes us so willing to take that risk again? Why does someone see us that way to start with?
So, we close up our bud and don’t let out its sweet smell. But that makes us hard-shelled and wary. Is that a bad thing?
Yet a lot of people want the instant crap that comes with the Internet. Well, I guess that weeds out the flakes easier.
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went to a play party, back to nature party its called, did a cutting on chris. cut 'Lady Flowr's' on his butt again. mm it turned out nice.
beautiful night, big half moon, cool air, great friends and laughter and even better huggs.
priceless :)
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Diversity.
Such a broad word that can mean so much. It is funny to me that people feel that there is only one way to do things, usually theirs! What doesn’t amaze me is they rarely understand your POV in those cases. For instance; someone that just wants BDSM for the sexual aspect usually doesn’t understand the ‘lifestyle-minded’ person. The same thing with the YKINMK = Your Kink Is Not My Kink- YKINOK = Your Kink Is Not Okay and YKIOKIJNMK = Your Kink is OK, It's Just Not My Kink . Problem is that oft times people may SAY its OK what others do, but in reality they do have a problem with it! What I do not understand is the person that feels they are Dominant, therefore, as a submissive, you should submit to them. Oh! Isn’t that the ones we call wannabe’s? There ARE ‘rules’ IMHO within the lifestyle. Some have no clue. Like using a condom with sex. Why da heck would you change that just because they ask, even if they don’t understand your reasoning...
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A favorite poem found here: http://famouspoetsandpoems.com/poets/shel_silverstein/quotes
The Little Boy and the Old Man by Shel Silverstein
Said the little boy, "Sometimes I drop my spoon."
Said the old man, "I do that too."
The little boy whispered, "I wet my pants."
"I do that too," laughed the little old man.
Said the little boy, "I often cry."
The old man nodded, "So do I."
"But worst of all," said the boy, "it seems
Grown-ups don't pay attention to me."
And he felt the warmth of a wrinkled old hand.
"I know what you mean," said the little old man.
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Listen to the mustn'ts, child.
Listen to the don'ts.
Listen to the shouldn'ts, the impossibles, the won'ts.
Listen to the never haves, then listen close to me...
Anything can happen, child.
Anything can be.
Shel Silverstein
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So, who's into the Olympics? on some level i just don't understand the premise here. its the me Tarzan you Jane , i'm bigger and better than you thing. and this helps world peace how???
oh well .
My hair is growing back now! might actually have to find my hairdresser again to put it so i don't look like a shaggy dog! hm well not MY dog! got my Schipperke shaved a bit, but not quite as low as he was last year. he just looked funny.
acquired another lil' dog also! a Maltese. he's doing good. actually making Skippy get up and play more often. its funny.
Still hot as heck here. the tomatoes love it though. they're taller than i am (5') and dang i have to find someone to give some too soon!!!
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Well, it seems i just don't think of this thing very often! sorry 'bout that.
its been hot, like 110 and below, yuck. the fires are raging around us here in N. Calif and i pray they don't move down just a tad, or we're next.
ashy smokey clouded sky
feels gray and oppressive
looking up seems strange
see the blood orange-red sun and moon
stare down at you
as it tries to sneak thru the atmosphere.
foggy horizon drawn with care
then had a finger smudge it
so you can't see.
wind comes thru and breathes some relief
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Ok, so I haven’t written a thing for a while now. Sometimes you just don’t want to put things down I guess. So..
What does one do when there are too many things rattling around in the brain? Wispy, wavy, purple haze floats inside, tinges of berries that smell so sweet, maybe tangy. Maybe things have changed, what things! Isn’t that why they say, the more things change, the more they remain the same?
Oh well, the scout walks ahead in the dusty trail; the air is crisp and clean, with wildflowers abound; maybe unseen except for their smell, softly wafting up to your nose like yellow sunshine. Seeing new sights, discovering new, maybe different, things, but always experiencing things as they come, and taking things in stride.
Where it is leading down that road unforeseen is anyone’s guess.
Is it a test?
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feel those flames burn up your body to the top.
writhe within your self enclosed cage of sheets.
Watch as you body breaks out in sweat, good wet, cooling sweat.
Will it have the desired affect? Will it do its job?
The job, of course, is to make that fire go away.
Make that flame not quite so hot, engulfing and total.
Cool the body as you wish.
Feel those bizarre dreams run through your head as the flame dies down.
Is it success? Or will it rise once again to engulf you, that burning dragon of a fever just sitting there to flame up once again.
Companion piece to your journal entry....
From a Friend
Breasts, nipples, mouths, and tongues . . . what a delightful combination of sensations.
I suck from your breast, As if from life's source.
The softness oozes through my fingers
And I knead
(and I need!)
Making your nipples supple, With a hard knot of nipple
Tucked in my mouth, In betweeen my teeth.
My tongue dances
Ancient memories
Trying to reclaim
What you do not have hidden inside there.
I can make you writhe and moan
Whilst I tug and pull,
Taste and nearly swallow,
Squish and massage,
Press and nearly scratch
You under my nails Into my skin
Trying to consume you, Impress upon you,
How much I love it
When I suck from your breast.
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Nazareth
Love hurts, love scars,
Love wounds, and marks,
Any heart, not tough,
Or strong, enough
To take a lot of pain,
Take a lot of pain
Love is like a cloud
Holds a lot of rain
Love hurts, ooh ooh love hurts
(skip verse)
Some fools think of happiness
Blissfulness, togetherness
Some fools fool themselves I guess
Theyre not foolin me
I know it isnt true,
I know it isnt true
Love is just a lie,
Made to make you blue
Love hurts, ooh,ooh love hurts
Ooh,ooh love hurts
wow does THAT ring a bell right now. damn. |
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life just gets in the way sometimes. oh well, thats life! hehe
Working on a goal, looking at your soul.
where do we go from here, is it out of fear
that we stay stagnant where we are and with what we do? or do we change a few things around and then see what happens. the approach can sometimes be all it takes to have someone interprete things in a diferent manner. or, hey, take a deep breath, hum, sing, or whistle and you're mind changes. things don't seem so hard. it just takes a min for your brain to go somwhere else. |
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it is interesting to me, maybe due to my submissiveness, that others can not be patient with Family.
I guess i don't understand how hard it is to just be patient and understanding. a simple mm, uhuh or whatever works,instead of getting annoyed or irritated, it is so easy to do.
to decipher the above, i spent the day getting my brother, who is a parapeligic, and double amputee, into a care facility. great timing i know. but there isn't much i can do about that one. I will do my best to make his Christmas as happy as i can.
I hope everyone has a Great Christmas, or whatever you celebrate. Think about those less fortunate than you. it only takes a quick smile to a stranger even, to make someones day.
`flowr |
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Staring in a mirror, what looks back at you?
Life, problems, stress or more
How are things going, whats in store?
How we stare into the mirror and wish we could see
what it is we're supposed to be
Things get hidden and don't come out
Hidden agendas and time to dig deep?
Or do you find the price is just a little steep
Staring into a mirror and hope looks back at you
~flowr
"Trust you own instinct.
Your mistakes might as well be your own, instead of someone else's."
--Billy Wilder
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Some how this quote fits at the moment.
How often do we put ourselves in a box and not realize we are there?
When something can just change your perspective out of the blue
How can one remedy that nose to the corner
that you one day may rue
Just take a deep breath and come up for air.
Change isn't easy, but that's what you should do
Why isn't it easier to see things from another's view
Fit them into your life
And make something new
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"Flow with whatever is happening and let your mind be free. Stay
centered by accepting whatever you are doing. This is the
ultimate."
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Wow! What a weekend. No, I don’t mean in BDSM way. I slept a good portion of the weekend. I have no idea why, it just happened.
Sometimes we just have to go with the flow of life. It is what dictates us after all. We may not LIKE that, but it is something that won’t change. Or is it the Wind that changes us... Why DO they call it the Winds of Change anyway?
Isn’t it US that changes our life? Or try to anyway. What if we don’t know quite what needs to be changed, or how?
Sometimes Life is a mystery. |
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yes yes yes! what a exquisite birthday. best i think i've ever had :D
it is also my sons' and he was 23.
Finally got in a complete set of spankings for the lil rotter hehe. normally, since he's bigger and taller than me, i don't try because he reverses it on me. but this time i GOT him hehehe. now THAT was gratifying!!! And i had a couple of firsts, guess thats always good. i had an awesome flogging all over me and i realllyyy spaced!
it was strange and deeper than i'd ever been. was 'here' but still spaced. i remember bits and pieces like i was daydreaming. and i went out so deep for like 1 1/2 everyone was getting worried. usually:
1. i usually need more pain to fly.
2. i am usually incoherent when i fly
3. floggers are my least of things i like. they are usually just annoying hehe
guess you really don't know what will get you going and gone too!!
oh! and a friends baby was born on my birthday.
So THANK YOU universe.
to great friends, time spent together and camaraderie. may it continue on to even better birthdays and times.
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Well its my birthday. going to a play party later today. my sons birthday is the same day too! i finally got him and gave him spankings hehehe. first time in a long time! haha
hubby got me a keyboard stand for my keyboard piano! yeah! maybe i can start playing more. it wasnt at the right height before so it was hard.
another day and another year older. my son said 'You're getting old mom' and i said no, i'm not old :) You're only as old as you feel. ok, at times, sure we all feel old. but i'll tell you what, i knew a lady in her 80's that maybe was old in body, but not mind. now THATS how i want to be, thats for sure.
i hope everyone had a great Holiday if celebrated. |
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enjoying friends, doing new things are good, pushing some limits.. having fun!
amazing how that can up your spirits in life. |
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In order to change behavior, one must changer their thoughts
- Dr. Aaron Bec
You need to see the bigger picture sometimes. To see past that slice of a moon on to what you know is there, and what the whole moon looks like.
change your perspective to envision the whole picture.
Maybe it will enable a solution to something.
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Relationships
Everyone has a different take on what that means for them. What does that entail? Trust, faith, honesty, communication and caring?
well thats my definition anyway.
trust can be a difficult thing to work on, to give away, to give to someone, or accept it too.
what does trust give you in a relationship anyway? access to the person? or does that encompass honesty too?
how much do you have to give up of yourself to allow to trust another completely? what part of control is it?
all of this encompasses the difference in thoughts of what a relationship means to one.
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How does one learn when not given the chance?
Why does one have to be a marionette ready to dance?
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i just love Anais Nin quotes. She was such and extraordinary person.
Some of my favorite found here:
http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/a/anais_nin.html
Anxiety is love's greatest killer. It makes others feel as you might when a drowning man holds on to you. You want to save him, but you know he will strangle you with his panic.
Do not seek the because - in love there is no because, no reason, no explanation, no solutions.
Dreams are necessary to life.
Anais Nin |
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opening up, like a flower in bloom. allowing dampness to seep up from the bottom, or maybe poured on top. growing stronger and reaching for the sky. feeling the warmth of sunlight and the coolness of the breeze. |
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From a friend. If anyone knows if it came from somewhere else please let me know ~flowr
Master
if i ask You will You teach me how to fly ?
Yes little one
I'll take your hand and guide you up as high as a dove
and show you the world thru the eyes of love
Master
if i ask You will You teach me how to cry ?
Yes little one
I'll open My heart so you can give Me your pain
Wipe the tears as they flow in a gentle river down your
cheeks
each precious drop like a cleansing rain
Master
if i ask You will You open my eyes ?
Yes little one
Place your trust in Me let My hands be your guide
I'll show you all you can be
Show you the person I see hidden so deep inside
Master
if i ask You will You teach me how to trust ?
Yes little one
Put your hand in Mine, Let Me walk by your side good times and bad,
Let Me earn your trust each step of the way
I'll prove to you I'll never stray .
Master
if i ask You will You show me how to Love ?
Yes little one
Actions speak louder than any words I can say.
To show you each and every day
that My Love for you is genuine and true
with every thing that I do
there is No other way
Master
if i ask You will You set me free ?
Yes little one
I'll teach you to soar
Cherish each tear and so much more
Show you the world and watch you grow
Earn your Trust and offer you Mine
and most of all little one
Know that you are Mine until the end of time
she looks into His eyes
and sees the heart that is hers
a smile glows because she knows
her voice has never uttered the words
He's already answered her every question with care
she's sure she's free
He's forever and always there |
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Heart strings
are they like a harp, just aching to be played?
Do they stretch out in pain then slowly, slowly reshape as they were.
Pain, happiness, worry, stress
it is all part of our lives.
it is just how we deal with it all
that...matters.
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Waking up out of a trance
Is like dressing and putting on your pants.
You do it all the time,
And other stuff of that kind.
Yet, you didn’t notice you were in
That trance.
Until you woke up and came out of the fog
Like a river floating a log.
Where it may go who’s to know,
But the tree it was from it will never mend.
So you discover new things in your life.
The good things and the strife.
Looking inside,
You’ve already tried,
So you see you have to come up with,
Something new to live
A life without fog and must find someone to assist.
And you find yourself happy
And not crappy.
Thank You
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Its funny to me, what stares you in the face sometimes. Isn't it that they say you can't see whats right before your eyes? boy have i don't that one before!! well anyway.
interesting quote:
"There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them."
-- Dr. Denis Waitley
often i forget also that to NOT choose IS a choice. lets think thru things and be happy with what we do choose.
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Saw this quote. it just made sense.
"Take time to accept responsibility. Your life is exactly that - It's your life. It is created by you. You are constantly making choices, constantly creating new experiences. And although we can be affected by circumstances which can seem to be completely out of our control. Essentially, we decide the direction in which we walk. "
Nicolas Watkins |
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is it live or is it Memorex lol.
haven't heard that in awhile i bet. There is a lot of not live things on the net. people out of the area are one. I almost hate utilizing IM systems. think i'm going to take off my cam :) its too easy..
If one can gauge ones submission, test it, check it out, give it a trial period, and ask to do things, what is the reverse of that may i ask?
How does one gauge someones Dominance?
its more of a tactile thing. Somthing in person that is needed. a connection, touch, sound, feeling.
So, Maybe we should all have a 2 week rule or something. Meet in 2 weeks period.
knowledge can usually be assesed by some questions, but still easier in person too.
just random thoughts.
so, is it Memorex or is it real?
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To look in one's soul and see the inside desires
and thoughts is amazing. What is even more spectacular is understanding
what they mean. ~flowr
Why is it people don't take the time to learn the basic things about whom they are attempting to become thier submissive? Its interesting to me, sites like this, that people say, "hi" then disappear! or don't like what you've said, and instead of answering back, you never hear from them again. I say ThankYou to them for weeding themselves out of the Dominant race without me doing it!
The beginning of this connection should be just that: about the connection.
To start off with pet names and inclusion of familiarity that isn't there at first, doesn't put one on the level field that is needed to begin with in order to create the power exchange that is wished for at the end.
Lets let the relationship bloom first, which takes time.
time....time.... time... isn't there a song about that?
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Why is it so hard to tell something to someone? Its coached in amongst other words, not mentioned at all, or ignored..maybe until later. Its frustrating, to say the least!
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How does one protect themselves emotionally whilst searching for someone? I find it really hard to keep the 'sweetness' around sometimes when i've opened myself up like one wishes me to. Then 'something' happens and 'nothing' happens. lol
how are you supposed to learn about someone withOUT opening up.
I also don't understand how one can give up everything to jump into the unknown, without consideration for who/what/where they are at the present time. Yet it seems to be not uncommon to be wanted.
I don't wish to steel coat my heart, but sometimes i wonder ....
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Well the new year has come and gone! the one thing i wanted to do, quit smoking since i started up again after quitting for 10 years, i have done. Yeah! Welbutrin to the rescue!
I am recuperating after having a cervical neck fusion of 2 vertebrae the end of Feb. i'm tired of recuperating :) But,, all in all i am doing well with it.
Though i think something must have addled my brain because emotionally i seem to be a wreck. Maybe i'm just feeling vulnerable for some reason. must be the change in seasons. |
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Wow been awhile here. Great thanksgiving and my birthday (and my sons) was the 25th also!
So, i'm curious. do people like long profiles, or short profiles?
~~~
Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.
~The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.
~The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing, I just helped him cry"
may everyone have such a friend. |
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Welll hubby and i went to the bay for the weekend. had an awesome time at the Southern_Cross munch Friday, a BBN dance Friday later that night too!
went to Edges ( Edges dot biz) for and age play halloween time. wow, singing nursery rhymes and playing musical chairs, swatting a pinata (that turned out to be cardboard wrapped in plastic tape!) was a blast. but us kids couldn't kill the darn witch :::::wa:::::::: some aDULT had to try, and they even had a hard time :::: smile::::: hehhee stupid adults, thinking they could do it better than us KIDS!!!! hehehehe Special Ed boy and i had a blast!
The halloween party that night was cool. Miss Noel as a French maid and me as a glitter witch! i am STILL rubbing glitter out of my eyes though. oy.
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Folsom Fringe: Awesome
friends, hugs, scenes, leather, laughter
knowlege, understanding, growth |
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my biggest fault seems to be honesty. is that my Sagittarius sign showing up, being blunt and honest?
why can't i just shut up sometimes?
Why do i keep finding those that feed on my good traits to the point that i want to change who i am because of it?
why is it people find it SO damn easy to lie, confuse and confound? That is something i learned in my values while growing up.
sometimes i just want to go hide under a rock. go swim in the ocean and let the salt toughen me up. I don't like me when the streetwise lady shows up. |
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Wow, what is it with those that don't even start an email with a 'hello?'
The attempt to get to know someone seems to be secondary to most people lately.
subs writing :: Kneels at your feet::::
i mean who ARE you> don't know you from adam...
Doms saying 'wow, i'd really like to xyz'
again who the heck ARE you>???
There are a few that actually seem to be proficient with the nicetys of prose in writing to someone. Its a nice surprise.
Letting someone know that you like thier profile, enjoyed reading it, or whatever is also nice.
how would YOU like if one wrote, hey i would like to Take you just as you are, maybe tie you up and whatever.
without a hello, how are you?
where does the introduction come in?
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why is it a lot of people dont read profiles throughly. i mean READ them.
not just assume something.
well, seems to be a lot of submissive males out there that need some protocol help anyway.
i'd suggest http://www.frugaldomme.com for a good site to read ;)
ok vent done!
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Well, I often wonder how one gets around to a meaningful conversation!
ok so its a random thought.
How does one get experience in the lifestyle? to some its reading. to some its practicing. to some its practicing on others :: shiver::::
learning and teaching and being around others imho is the only way to truly know something.
other than that i got my nose pierced today, love it!
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It is interesting to me that there is such a diversity in the understanding of what one feels BDSM is to them in thier lives. To some its all about the sexual side, to another its a lifestyle and is on thier minds all the time, to another its simply about the control.
I think one of the most important thing is to find out what it means to the two people talking.
now, how does one go about doing that?
that is the question of the day.
~smile
The other is how the heck do you get background color in here?
~chuckle
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| Age: 50 |
| LosAngeles,
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