Collarspace.com

New to this site (but not to the lifestyle!)



I am looking for more local people in my area (within about a 2 hour drive at most.) I do not wish to have a LDR as I cannot accommodate *guests* on a regular basis. I prefer men or women (but not couples) close to my age. Hard minimum is 35, hard Max is 50. Please do not ask me to change this for you. This is about what I am seeking.



I prefer non cohabiting partners but am open to partners that have partners.. open or poly relationships. Ultimately would like a long term relationship that includes both kinky and vanilla lifestyle. Although, I know full heartedly this is hard to truly come by.. But we can always dream, right?



Also, I am not looking for an online relationship. (I thought the LDR covered that, but apparently not. lol) Also, not looking for penpals.



Kinks include (but not limited to)

spanking (cane, tawse, belt, paddle..)

Bondage

Sensory play

Exhibitionism



Hard limits

Daddy or Mommy play

Rape fantasies

Blood

Animals



Clearly by my name, I am a sub (not a slave). I am looking for a Domme. But please understand that this does not qualify you to order me around until I give you that control. I have spankedcaned in my recent past and am curious to exploring more on that. So a switch would be a nice asset.



Chat soon!





Fetlife available if we connect


11/4/2017 9:00:51 PM
"If you are approaching me with a boner in hand (pun intended) and I was not the one that intentionally caused it, I want nothing to do with your happy ending".

~intentionally... meaning that I was aware and consented in the boner making process.

"If your genitals are the first thing you want to show me, it will be the first and the last thing I ever see of you".

*my quotes*


3/8/2017 9:34:36 AM
Why is it an epidemic on all dating/meeting sites that people are so horrid at using punctuation and correct words? 

I mean, come on! THIS is your FIRST impression! Make it SOLID. Especially if you claim to be a DOM. Show your authority, show you are educated! 
I get so turned off when I have to try to decipher a *Doms* very first message. Seriously, it isn't that hard to type correctly in this day considering all the fancy devices we have available to use.

USE that spell checker! Add those commas! 


OK, moving on...
Have a great day... I am off like a prom dress!
3/6/2017 10:39:11 AM
A Note to all the butthurt Males/Doms/Masters/Sirs that either did not take time to READ my profile to find out what I am looking for on this site.. OR you read it but chose to ignore because YOUR wants are more important than your subs... YOU FAIL AS A Dom/Master/Sir.  

If you cannot listen to what a possible new sub is wanting or desiring.. and what they DO NOT want here on their profile, HOW THE HELL can you be trusted that you will listen to them in real life???? 

And if you come at me after I have asked you if you have read my profile calling me insulting names, might I remind you that YOU were the one that reached out to ME. 

Throwing insults will only get you blocked as I do not waste my time with such pettiness.
3/2/2017 11:22:59 AM
For you domly doms that aren't quite sure what you are requesting when seeking a Sub... 

Please read this! 

WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A SUBMISSIVE AND A SLAVE? 

http://www.katekinsey.com/the-difference-between-a-slave-and-a-submissive.html
1/22/2017 11:39:22 PM
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80% Brat
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76% Non-monogamist
57% Pet
44% Girl/Boy
43% Switch
39% Primal (Prey)
29% Ageplayer
28% Degradee
21% Sadist
18% Dominant
13% Master/Mistress
11% Rigger
9% Vanilla
7% Daddy/Mommy
7% Owner
5% Brat tamer
4% Primal (Hunter)
1% Degrader
1/22/2017 10:59:53 PM
Hey all, I am not looking for pen pals, LDR or Dom/mes that can "travel" I've stated in my profile that I cannot accommodate guests. I do not want or need the hassle of trying to coordinate a trip for someone. Please respect this, thank you!
marwa940
 
 Age: 25
 Springfield, Illinois