I'm a dominant by nature, looking for a brave open minded serious woman.

I desire more than a play partner...someone with whom I can develop a committed, long term relationship......on a foundation of reciprocal respect, honesty, integrity and trust...with the shared satisfaction of a mental, physical and emotional power exchange.

Now, the pleasure comes from several sources. Toys, and/or me. Your senses will be bombarded, especially with the bondage being incorporated.

A typical encounter would be you strapped down somehow with your legs wide apart. You can't escape, but are relaxed. The bondage is meant to restrain. I use my hands on your clit and bring you close to orgasm. Then stop. The teasing may continue for a while. Once you are warmed up, I insert the dildo, objects. At first it's a slow and gentle fuck. I gradually increase the speed and stroke length until it's pounding you pretty hard. Then I work on other parts of your body with vibrators or anything else that you find arousing. You lose count of the number of orgasms you have. We do this for hours on end with various toys and positions.

My hands will be all over you naked body. Most positions I'm fond of keep you well exposed so that inserting fingers/dildos/vibrators is easier for me.

Spankings are the most possibility. They are meant as more of a sensual experience than as punishment. It's not me beating you, but about turning you on. There is a lot more physical contact than just spanking. I like to start the spanking with you bound and fully clothed. By the time I pull your panties off, they are usually very wet. The spankings are must of course.

If those situations or something similar sound like fun, then I want to hear from you. I understand that submitting to the bondage requires a good deal of trust. And I'm willing to invest the time to earn yours. This is not something for a one night stand. I want this to involve recurring encounters where we can escalate the intensity of the BDSM activities over time as our level of trust grows. Obviously, all limits will be respected. Like I said before, you are helpless but in full control.

Besides the trust, honesty and communication are critical. I need to know what turns you on and what doesn't. This happens before, during and after each encounter. I can't maximize your pleasure without honest, adult communication. Everyone's sexual needs and desires are different and I don't make any assumptions about yours.

Physically, I am attracted to all women. I'm an average looking guy. But do not let that discourage you from replying. Sexy comes in all shapes and sizes, and we won't know if there is an attraction until after we swap photos.

I'm in my mid-forties, but look a little younger. Geographically, I'm in Burbank. I have my little space and live there by myself. I'm also single with no kids.

Despite my sexual preference for sexually submissive women, I'm a very normal guy with a very normal job. Everyone in my life is glad that I'm in theirs. I'm a long way from being a controlling, arrogant jerk.