I am open to inquiries... but if you contact me, say more than just "hello SIR". I only respond to messages and profiles that are informative and complete.
FIRST CONTACT RULES
- Your profile must be sufficiently filled out and contain at least one photo
- If you prefer not to have a profile photo, then attach one when contacting me
- All inquiries about providing service must be informative
- I prefer to be addressed as "SIR" in all conversations
- Long-distance is OK but must immediately say whether you are able/willing to travel
- Do not ask about details that can be answered by simply reading through my profile
First impressions are everything when trying to gain my attention. As well as your ability to communicate effectively.
Professional, intelligent, self-assured but not cocky, confident but not arrogant. I know who I am. I know what I want and I know what I need. I am approachable (with respect). And I am open to eventually meeting in person if I feel an attraction, physically or mentally.
Being a black man in BDSM has been an experience. Discovering the Black Dom/white sub scene has been a definite highlight. I have met, trained and/or owned over 40 subs since 1993. This can be a rewarding lifestyle, if one is capable of investing the time and energy required to make it work.
There is a certain comfort in knowing your role. Finding the right submissive is a seemingly never-ending journey. Some of us are lucky to make that connection effortlessly, while others struggle to find common ground. In the moment we're born, we're all drawn to form a union with others. A binding drive to connect, love and to belong. That is what brought you to this site... and ultimately, to this profile.
In a perfect union, we find the strength we cannot find in ourselves. But, the strength of the union cannot be known... until it is tested.
Nothing happens until you decide to take a chance. No matter the circumstance, you do have power over getting what you want. It is easy to do. Simply trust your instincts and be honest about your intentions.
I am not your typical Dominant. I do not adhere to the stereotype. My domination comes from knowing who I am and what I want, instinctively.
I enjoy being taken care of in any way I choose. Sexually, I'm all top and enjoy a nice submissive bottom who possesses the physical attributes necessary to excite and please. But it is not all about sex. That is just an unavoidable factor of the dynamic.
I seek submissives who enjoy serving a Dominant. Truly serving where the focus is on pleasing because you NEED to... not just because you want to. This can be sexual only, domestic or a combination of both. Just know who you are and what you want. Even if you are not fully sure what that is yet.
WEEKEND SERVICE (1-2 days)
This option is designed for those who wish to (or can only) serve short-term. All details would be discussed prior to an agreement of service. You may contact me for more details but only if you include why this option appeals to you. Open to both Local and Long-distance (if able to travel) inquiries.
I have been an experienced fister since 1995. I bring an unique and effective blend of hardcore fisting techniques to the game. It has taken years to perfect my technique and it is unique to me. I am selective about the bottoms I fist. Packaging is everything as the visual is just as important as the "feeling". You must have prior experience.
First timers or novices are welcome to approach me but be honest about your experience upfront. Mentoring may be an option to help you gain experience.
Online-based Life or Lifestyle coaching is available. Fisting and Service training is available for the Denver area only. All mentoring/training opportunities are on a per session basis. Be able to communicate what you are seeking prior to inquiring.
AGAIN. If you contact me, you better say more than just "hello SIR". I only respond to messages AND profiles that are informative and complete.