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Seeking a psychologically healthy man with a dominant streak for LTR.

No severe sadist. No control freak. No social coward or loser in life seeking psychological balance from commanding a weak woman. I can be submissive, but am not compliant.

Very hard to describe what I want. Here are some basic requirements

-----Taller than 175cm. No chubby face. In shape. Well-groomed. Between 35 to 50.

-----Intense. A sharp mind.

-----Self-awareness. Not a fan of party, gathering or other group activities (except for business collaboration).

-----Actively involving in this fast-changing world yet keeping a sense of detachment, without losing peace in heart. No anger, no cynic, no eagerness to please the world.

A little introduction of myself

On BDSM front, I used to have a deep slave side since childhood, but it has faded with growing self-awareness and desire for autonomy. But degradation, humiliation, ification and mild pain still turn me on, and probably will remain so.

On vanilla side, Id been working as a mobile telecommunication engineer for years and now Im learning trading. I love it because nothing can satisfy a persons endless inquisitiveness and the born spirit of chasing and killing by presenting constant challenges more than financial markets. Its really exciting and I think Ill still do it in my 90s.

On the surface, Im easy-going and emotional, sometimes sentimental. But deep down, Im difficult, rational and am a bit fussy on people and things. I need novelty and if live a routine life repeating everyday, I get bored and restless.

I enjoy most of outdoor activities. Nature and horizon are important to me. I like gardening, cooking, indoor decoration and animals.

I dont like parties or dance bars because I dont like it when people get high and lose rationality.

So thats me. Please dont hesitate to write to me if you think we might match.