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I am seeking a genuine, smart submissive girl who isin shape, fun and smart.



Seeking Betty Draper, Jen Short and Lee Holloway.



I have a professional career, am smart, funny, cultured and controlling. I am 59, about 190 pounds run two to three times a week, write professionally and have an Ivy League education. Live in Manhattan. I know art, a good bit of history, wine, politics, media and some women.



I know what I want. Maybe its you.



Very real. Not fucking around. And since I cannot see everyone, do us a favor and say hello.






4/18/2018 9:01:36 AM
A note for prospective submissive girls, women - mine or otherwise.

I hope your 'hard limit' keeps you warm at night and cares for you and protaspects you. I really do. You probably need and want that. But consider it closely because it's possible that your limits won't and, in the end, you'll be left with them and them alone. 

If you say no to me over stupid bullshit, please don't act surprised when I say no to your stupid bullshit.

Please make a note of it. 
3/26/2018 3:06:18 PM
Going out for a cocktail this Wednesday. That will be the 28th. 

Do raise your hand if you'd like to join me. Especially if you're a fan of Bill Murray. You'll understand if you want to go have a drink. Wed. 6:30pm. 

And drink is not code for sex. No sex will happen. It's cocktails with a submissive, polite, smart woman in a dress. Nothing more. 
3/23/2018 3:48:33 PM
It's 6:48 on a Friday and my glass is empty. Where is the sexy girl who wants nothing more than to fix that?
3/22/2018 6:38:07 PM
Maybe 10 years ago, one of my first subs, maybe my first, said I was an emotional sadist. I disagreed. 

But years later, I think she may be right. 

So if you're looking for an emotional sadist, you know, say hi. 
3/20/2018 12:03:42 PM
I'd like to take someone here: opheliany.com/

Let me know if you'd like to go. 
3/13/2018 9:27:41 AM
Where are the smart, fit girls? 

Where? 

Phoenix?

Oh. I'll make a note of it. Thanks. 
3/7/2018 8:53:24 AM
If heaven existed, I'd know two or three good looking, fit submissive girls who were massage therapists and found deep personal fulfillment in pleasing me. 
2/27/2018 7:41:33 AM
In need of a cocktail in a sexy, high-end bar with enticing banter and revealing intimacy. If that sounds good to you, message me. 
2/21/2018 8:17:27 AM
So, no one likes The Palm. Got it. :) 


2/8/2018 2:55:48 PM
Who'd like to join me for dinner at The Palm next week? 
1/31/2018 2:47:38 PM
If you believe your hands should be behind your back and mine should be around your neck, message me. 
1/26/2018 1:24:55 PM
On a whim, I posted an ad on a common, general posting site offering no-strings, regular safe spankings. I was, naturally, flooded with boys begging for such a thing but since I'm not interested, I declined. 

I mention this because I've been pleasantly surprised by the response from women. So far, two nice ladies have become regulars. They come by at set times, dress go up or pants come down, spanking happens. Often hard, for several minutes. I give them a moment to recover then they are on their way. One of the girls has yet to say a word. It's barely sexual. But it is emotional and has a deep D/s dynamic. 

Anyway, interesting. 


1/23/2018 8:01:12 AM
I had two people ask me about this within the past week so re-posting it so it's back up top. Cheers. 
 
 
Not sure I posted this before. To this who ask, THIS, is what I'm seeking. But if you're reading it here, I'm betting you have the submissive part down pat. Anyway...

I'm looking for a partner, a mate. Long term. Open to marriage but not hung up on that. 

But. I am old enough to know exactly what I want. And I'll get into that briefly. First, however, two points. 

I know women/girls. When I list six things I want, and a girl isn't a match on one item, she thinks she's not a match. That's wrong. To prevent this, I've set up the 'what I need and want' part of this ad on a point system. Yes, it's a tad sophomoric but it will help the mostly-qualified girls find their way to me. That's my hope, desire and design anyway. So, get out a pencil. 

Second, about me, which you'll need to know this in order to decide whether to reply and invest. I'm 43, white, live in Manhattan, no kids. I am 5'9" and about 190lbs, although I'm usually closer to 180. I am a casual runner -- three half marathons this past year. I make more than $150,000 a year in a professional setting which includes fun and fluid freelance work. I also have several projects which, with good fortune, may become quite lucrative. Most people describe me as funny and smart. I love cultural and intellectual pursuits and travel. I'm not an outdoors guy, I prefer a lodge to a tent and a good Old Fashioned to light beer. 

I'll buy a place in Manhattan and a long-term vacation home in Tuscany. I expect to travel at least two weeks a year -- one in Europe another anywhere else, not counting work travel or long weekends. I am an atheist. And a passionate college football fan. And some baseball. I have outstanding manners and am a liberal. 

Now it gets interesting and where I expect to lose 90% of those who read this far (and thank you). There are really two non-negotiable points or traits that my partner has to have. I know it just won't work if she's not both of these things. After that, I can be more flexible. 

The first. Please only reply if you're willing to be in a sexually open relationship. I don't mean emotionally or life-sharing. I am looking for a life-mate, the (singular) person with whom I share everything. No secrets. But I also know I enjoy, will seek and find sexually adventurous activities. I want to do these things with my mate and with her knowledge and, ideally, with her enthusiastic support as well. As long as we're safe and honest with each other, I expect her to enjoy herself as well -- with the security of my loyalty. 

Second must-have. I need a mate who is submissive. Both in a traditional gender role (50s household) way and sexually. I am an experienced Dom and won't be compatible with someone who lacks the deep need to submit and be controlled as well as have and follow rules. Understand, I am not looking for a rag doll -- I love strong women. But, with me, the one I love will need to explore her boundaries and need to give herself to her love, unconditionally. In public, we'd a dynamic and collaborative. Together, we'd follow a rather strict D/s protocol. 

I fully understand those two items aren't for everyone. But I'm not seeking anyone, I am seeking the right one. There are few other yes/or deal killers but I'll get to those right away. Therefore, if you're still here (thank you again), here's more about the one I'm looking for. As promised, quiz style. Pencils ready? 

White, European +1 point. 
Black or Central American -- sorry, this won't work. 

Between 5'3" and 5'9" +1 
Between 5'6" and 5'8" +1
Between 26 and 35 years old +1
Over 35 -- no, but thank you. 

Under 145lbs +1
Under 130lbs +1 
A or B cup +1
More than 150lbs -- put your pencils down. 

Have fit/athletic habits such as yoga, running, biking or similar +1
Have run more than a 10k in the past year +1

Prefer to wear skirts or dresses over pants +1
Look amazing in heels +2
Have at least one pair of heels more than 3" +1
Enjoy how stockings look and feel on you +1

Have a college degree +1
More than a BA/BS +1
From a top 25 college +2
Played a sport in college or high school +1

Have a career/job +1
Wear suits, professional clothes to work +1
Making someone else happy, makes you happy +2
Atheist +1
I'd be a better man if I found Jesus -5 

Can tell the difference between Magritte and Monet +1
Visited a museum outside the US +1
Have been to more than four different countries +1
Read anything in The Economist, Foreign Policy, The New Yorker or The Atlantic in the last 60 days +2
Want to, with your partner, be members of a major NY museum +1
Think Banksy is a vandal and a felon -1 
Who's Banksy? - subtract another one 
Mad Men is can't miss TV +1

Drink regularly or often +1
High end cocktail and hotel bars +1
Mosh pits -1 
70s Rock and 80s pop +1
Justin Bieber -- put your fucking pencil down

Turned on by thought of wearing a collar, sexually +1
Have worn a collar, sexually +1
Are bi-sexual +2
Maybe, under the right circumstances +1
Enjoy discipline, rules, spanking and bondage. Or think you do. +1
There are nude or sexually provocative photos of you on your phone right now +1
Any of the above is disgusting -- no, this isn't for you. Pencil down. 
If you feel safe, you will try anything once. +2
Daddy issues +1

See yourself on the deck of a sailboat in the Caribbean +1
At a Columbia University lecture +1
Hosting a dinner party +1
Never taking the subway -1
Love NYC +1
Know which team won two of the last three NCAA championships in either football or basketball +1
Boozy brunch +1
The Breakfast Club +1
Near perfect voting record +1
Can explain why Republicans will win the White House +1
Believe that will happen or that it's a good thing -1 

Tally Time. And thank you a third time for sticking though this with me. I hope it will be time well spent for both of us. 

More than 40 points -- respond immediately. I think it's imperative that I know you. You may be perfect for me, and vice versa. 
Between 35 and 39 -- respond, please. I think it's worth a conversation. This is a blunt, online quiz after all, not the MMPI (if you know what that is, add another point). 
Between 30 and 34 -- also send me an e-mail. We may be good together. Worth at least a drink or dinner or something. 
Between 25 and 29 -- if something caught your eye, say hello. 
Less than 25 -- I am sure you're a great woman and will find love and redemption. But it won't be with me. 

If you're responding, please let me know how many points you collected and what interested you about me and/or this ad. Thank you, all. Looking forward to seeing the responses. 

Cheers. 
1/21/2018 7:36:31 PM
Watching Stepford Wives on Showtime and getting so many good ideas. 
1/19/2018 8:46:25 AM
Just received a message which started, "I am not fake at all..." 

Classic. 
1/19/2018 8:23:48 AM
Do girls go on dates anymore? 

Does it make me old that I want to go out for dinner and/or cocktails? 

If your answer is yes, that makes me old, move along. Unless, of course, that's your thing in which case, say hello. 
1/2/2018 2:16:43 PM
I don't know where girls go, I swear. 

You meet one, things go well. You connect. You share things. Even make plans. Then, poof! Like a black fucking hole. 

I know girls like to be wanted, chased. But there's a bright line between persistence and restraining order. So you let some fish go. Or at least you should. I do. Nonetheless, when you picture them stuffed and mounted above your fireplace, it's disappointing when they swim away. 
12/14/2017 12:09:15 PM
Photos on CS should have a "like" button. 
12/14/2017 11:16:35 AM
So, I said in my profile the kind of things I like, the type of woman I'm looking for, by referencing movie or TV characters. So it got me thinking about how I'd do that for myself. 

I came up with three. 

Kevin Dolenz (you may have to Google that and if you're under 30 it likely means zero to you)
E. Edward Grey (no, not that Grey. Jesus, what is wrong with you people?) and
Roger Sterling 

More or less. 
 
12/5/2017 2:58:14 PM
Sometimes I pull up profiles of 20-something dommes just to laugh at them. 
12/4/2017 3:11:01 PM
Had a girl contact me over the weekend whose profile said she was a 'switch.' 

Let's do this. Read my profile and you tell me whether or not I'd be interested in a switch. What do you think? 
11/22/2017 2:59:39 PM
Happy Thanksgiving everyone. 

Ladies, if you're not cooking for, doting on a man this holiday, fix that. You can. Don't blame someone or something else. 
11/16/2017 7:45:51 AM
Who did not see this coming? 

The new girl I was meeting yesterday (see below) was a big disappointment. Last minute cancellation. Which is exceptionally frustrating. 

Bookmark this for the next time some sub wants to rant about there being no real, good guys. 
11/13/2017 2:29:20 PM
Seeing a new girl this week. Fingers crossed she does not disappoint. 
10/24/2017 3:03:14 PM
Girls are so disappointing. Thought I had found a good one. 


10/16/2017 12:59:48 PM
Yawn. 
9/11/2017 7:54:27 AM
Still seeking a date in NYC this week - see below. 
9/5/2017 6:36:46 AM
Looking for a date. 

There's a social group thing this coming Thurs, the 14th, in the evening at a bar/club in Manhattan. 

The group is of and for women to dress like sluts, in revealing attire. And gentlemen. By dress like sluts I mean high dresses, heels, stockings, low cut or see through tops. 

I'd like to go and would like someone to go with me. Purely social. No sex happens as these gatherings - it's in a public place. It's an opportunity to have a few drinks, meet some sexy, kinky people and have a good time. 

If you look good dressed up and want to go, let me know. 


9/1/2017 6:50:13 AM
And another winner e-mail from the gallery of idiocy. Related to the post just before this one, I gather. 

The e-mail: 

Ah but you changed it. Was it before or after your reply to the one you tell to go fuck themselves? They are correct, you just did not like being corrected. Have a great day!

After sending this, this winner blocked me or something so she can't be told she's wrong. Nonetheless, she's wrong. I changed nothing in either my profile or my journal.

I'm not sure how she'd know if I did anyway. 

So, you too my dear, can go fuck yourself. 
9/1/2017 6:17:59 AM
I received this e-mail this morning from someone claiming to be Domme. I'm sharing it, and my response, because it amuses me. 

Her e-mail: 

Quite contradictory if you say you are seeking Betty Draper, Jen Short... and in your August 24th journal entry, you say, another thing, if your profile says 'seeking for,' don't bother me. Methinks you may want to clear that up or else get one that may just rebuke you just like I did now.

My response: 

Hello. 

I go into this reply realizing it's a waste of my time. 

Nonetheless, I feel compelled to mention that my profile and journal posts are not contradictory. The reason you feel they are is that you don't comprehend English well. 

I'll explain. 

"Seeking for" is improper grammar. The word "seeking" means "looking or searching for." To search for something is to seek it. So when someone says the are "seeking for" something they are actually saying they are seeking for for something.

Putting it in terms you may be familiar with, you'd say, "I am seeking a cheeseburger" not "I am seeking for a cheeseburger." 

That you don't know that is my point. I don't want stupid people such as yourself bothering me. But you're clearly too clueless to understand even that and simply could not resist showing off your idiocy. 

And that you thought you were correcting me is both hilarious and obnoxious. You're as ignorant as you are arrogant. 

Speaking of which, it's none of your concern anyway. So go fuck yourself. 
8/24/2017 8:23:17 AM
And another thing, if your profile says "seeking for," don't bother me. 
8/22/2017 3:58:35 PM
It's time for another drink. 

I'll get it my damn self. 
8/9/2017 1:39:15 PM
If you have more than one 'x' in your screen name, I'm a no. 
7/20/2017 7:31:18 AM
You want to put on a nice dress, heels and meet me for a cocktail in Manhattan next week - starting Monday, July 24. I want to meet you for said beverage. 

Nothing more planned, nothing more expected. 

Tell me who you are and let's get that drink. 
7/11/2017 11:41:35 AM
Always thought it would be fun to team up with a lesbian domme and share or co-own a submissive slut. 
6/6/2017 9:02:18 AM
I'd sooner take a belt sander to my cock than engage with anyone under the age of 30 who thinks they are dominant. Maybe 28. If you're 22 and call yourself a Dom - male, female or otherwise, I call bullshit. 

Bullshit. 


5/19/2017 9:33:37 AM
Have I mentioned lately, ever?, that I hate when Doms or whomever put people "under consideration?" What the fuck is that? 

Either take the girl or let her keep looking for someone who will. You don't get to - should not - keep a wait list. You're not Harvard. 
5/19/2017 6:56:11 AM
This site should have a "like" option for photos and a "wink" button. Or something. 

Another contribution in my endless effort to make things better for everyone. 

You're welcome.
5/17/2017 7:05:03 AM
Going to get off. Be back in a few. 
2/15/2017 3:41:50 PM
Where in the hell is the smart girl who knows how to be quiet and can show up on time in a nice dress for dinner? 

What the fuck am I asking for? 
8/1/2016 9:24:31 AM
So many of the same boring, unappealing people I've seen on here for so long. Sad. 
6/8/2016 8:31:52 AM
I'm puzzled by girls who advertise that they are brats. 

Being a brat is an immature indulgence. I'm not here (on CS or on this planet) to indulge you. Get your shit together and figure out why you're really here. 
5/26/2016 6:57:57 AM
With few exceptions, the only women on here I want are dommes. Or so they say. 

So many subs are frumpy, fat, sad. Not too motivating. 
1/12/2016 8:27:11 AM
A belated Happy New Year to you. 
12/24/2015 12:09:19 PM
Shouldn't all you little sluts be home, preparing a pleasing holiday for your man? 
12/15/2015 3:46:47 PM
There isn't much wrong with the world that a little AC/DC can't fix. Or Sinatra. Or U2. Or Leonard Skynard. 
12/8/2015 2:36:11 PM
Chilled rocks glass, frozen vodka, cranberry juice, two lime wedges and 15 minutes of quiet. 

Good girl. 
12/1/2015 1:07:32 PM
My favorite journal entry of the day: 

"Wow , Very easy to say this I belive i have found my ower , please ask permisson from my new acting Master SOLVENT before Messaging Me,or you just be Delete, LEARN TO SPELL Please, Lets see how this goes??"

Why do I love that? 

Tell you what, you tell me. If you know, chances are excellent we'll get along. 
11/30/2015 10:50:40 AM
If you'd like to get a drink this evening (Monday 11/30) in Mad SQ/Wash SQ area, let me know. I have a business event and could meet you before (or after). 
11/26/2015 9:20:45 AM
Happy Thanksgiving, one and all. 

Well, most of all. A few of you can go fuck yourselves. 
11/19/2015 8:52:29 AM
It's Thursday afternoon. 

Anyone up for a drink after work tomorrow - around 530? 6? In Manhattan. 

 
11/11/2015 2:56:30 PM
I saw a post today, on this site, which read, "A sub needs to feel wanted. A Dom wants to feel needed." 

That may be the dumbest thing I've read in quite, quite some time. Oh, it's a twist on the words, so it must be insightful. No, it's inane. 

In my experience, a sub needs someone to tell her what to do. She needs rules, structure, discipline and certainty. A Dom demands respect, obedience and enjoys being able to set and enforce his rules. 

But that doesn't fit on postcard. Idiots.
11/4/2015 1:54:17 PM
I've grown tired of seeing the same faces, (fake) profiles, and disappointing girls in my feed here. 

So I lowered my search age to 23 (big mistake) for the youngest and 38 for the oldest (seems like a better idea) and expanded the radius to 250 miles. It was 100. I don't think I'll find anyone 235 miles from here, but it may not be smart to rule out those 101 miles away. 


11/3/2015 2:59:11 PM
Having Tito's and tonic in a chilled rocks glass and cranked up a bit of CCR. Seems like an ideal start to a Tuesday evening. 

Thoughts?


11/3/2015 7:36:34 AM
Been fighting some sort of cold, allergy thing - very annoying.

Have a major piece coming out tomorrow, so that's exciting. It's a piece I've been working on for more than six months and it's finally going to see the light, so to speak.

Enjoying the moderate weather - grilled pork chops on my patio last night. In Manhattan. In November. Shocking.

Anyway, hope everyone is well. Still waiting to find, connect with my girl. If you're out there, dear, don't thwart the universe by being shy. Introduce yourself.  
10/24/2015 7:03:19 AM
Went for a nice run in The Park last night. Was good to get out again before the weather makes that impossible. 

A few really cute girls out as well - which always makes the run more enjoyable. 

Another day pounding out some work and keeping my eye(s) on college football. 

Where oh where is my princess whore to take her place with me?
10/7/2015 9:03:31 AM
Wow. A 25yo 'total no limits' slave who lives in Texas yet is somehow just three miles from me! What luck! And she looks like a super model. Perfect. 

What? 

Of course it's a real ad. Totally. Who would bother to post fake profiles here? 
10/6/2015 1:29:21 PM
You know that old joke about a good man being hard to find but a hard man is good to find? 

Funny, yes. 

It strikes me, though, that the converse is untrue. A good sub is difficult to find. But finding a difficult sub is not good. And, even worse, all too easy. 

Perhaps it should be that finding a good sub is easy and it's good to find an easy sub. That works. But it's not true. Well, it's not entirely true. Far too many are easy, far to few are good. 
10/3/2015 7:46:24 AM
More crappy weather - which is fine for a prime college football Saturday. 

All that's missing is a cute, submissive girl to strut around the apartment today in tight team gear, make sure my drinks and snacks are full and sit quietly at my side or feet. Even without that, it's going to be a great, great day. 
9/30/2015 7:17:33 AM
Weather withstanding, it's a great day to be alive. A great time to be here. 

Let's take full advantage of being here, together, by getting to know one another. Say hi. As someone important once said (or perhaps it was a recent fortune cookie), "the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." 

So, let's step. 
9/2/2015 1:22:11 PM
Not sure I posted this before. To this who ask, THIS, is what I'm seeking. But if you're reading it here, I'm betting you have the submissive part down pat. Anyway...

I'm looking for a partner, a mate. Long term. Open to marriage but not hung up on that. 

But. I am old enough to know exactly what I want. And I'll get into that briefly. First, however, two points. 

I know women/girls. When I list six things I want, and a girl isn't a match on one item, she thinks she's not a match. That's wrong. To prevent this, I've set up the 'what I need and want' part of this ad on a point system. Yes, it's a tad sophomoric but it will help the mostly-qualified girls find their way to me. That's my hope, desire and design anyway. So, get out a pencil. 

Second, about me, which you'll need to know this in order to decide whether to reply and invest. I'm 43, white, live in Manhattan, no kids. I am 5'9" and about 190lbs, although I'm usually closer to 180. I am a casual runner -- three half marathons this past year. I make more than $150,000 a year in a professional setting which includes fun and fluid freelance work. I also have several projects which, with good fortune, may become quite lucrative. Most people describe me as funny and smart. I love cultural and intellectual pursuits and travel. I'm not an outdoors guy, I prefer a lodge to a tent and a good Old Fashioned to light beer. 

I'll buy a place in Manhattan and a long-term vacation home in Tuscany. I expect to travel at least two weeks a year -- one in Europe another anywhere else, not counting work travel or long weekends. I am an atheist. And a passionate college football fan. And some baseball. I have outstanding manners and am a liberal. 

Now it gets interesting and where I expect to lose 90% of those who read this far (and thank you). There are really two non-negotiable points or traits that my partner has to have. I know it just won't work if she's not both of these things. After that, I can be more flexible. 

The first. Please only reply if you're willing to be in a sexually open relationship. I don't mean emotionally or life-sharing. I am looking for a life-mate, the (singular) person with whom I share everything. No secrets. But I also know I enjoy, will seek and find sexually adventurous activities. I want to do these things with my mate and with her knowledge and, ideally, with her enthusiastic support as well. As long as we're safe and honest with each other, I expect her to enjoy herself as well -- with the security of my loyalty. 

Second must-have. I need a mate who is submissive. Both in a traditional gender role (50s household) way and sexually. I am an experienced Dom and won't be compatible with someone who lacks the deep need to submit and be controlled as well as have and follow rules. Understand, I am not looking for a rag doll -- I love strong women. But, with me, the one I love will need to explore her boundaries and need to give herself to her love, unconditionally. In public, we'd a dynamic and collaborative. Together, we'd follow a rather strict D/s protocol. 

I fully understand those two items aren't for everyone. But I'm not seeking anyone, I am seeking the right one. There are few other yes/or deal killers but I'll get to those right away. Therefore, if you're still here (thank you again), here's more about the one I'm looking for. As promised, quiz style. Pencils ready? 

White, European +1 point. 
Black or Central American -- sorry, this won't work. 

Between 5'3" and 5'9" +1 
Between 5'6" and 5'8" +1
Between 26 and 35 years old +1
Over 35 -- no, but thank you. 

Under 145lbs +1
Under 130lbs +1 
A or B cup +1
More than 150lbs -- put your pencils down. 

Have fit/athletic habits such as yoga, running, biking or similar +1
Have run more than a 10k in the past year +1

Prefer to wear skirts or dresses over pants +1
Look amazing in heels +2
Have at least one pair of heels more than 3" +1
Enjoy how stockings look and feel on you +1

Have a college degree +1
More than a BA/BS +1
From a top 25 college +2
Played a sport in college or high school +1

Have a career/job +1
Wear suits, professional clothes to work +1
Making someone else happy, makes you happy +2
Atheist +1
I'd be a better man if I found Jesus -5 

Can tell the difference between Magritte and Monet +1
Visited a museum outside the US +1
Have been to more than four different countries +1
Read anything in The Economist, Foreign Policy, The New Yorker or The Atlantic in the last 60 days +2
Want to, with your partner, be members of a major NY museum +1
Think Banksy is a vandal and a felon -1 
Who's Banksy? - subtract another one 
Mad Men is can't miss TV +1

Drink regularly or often +1
High end cocktail and hotel bars +1
Mosh pits -1 
70s Rock and 80s pop +1
Justin Bieber -- put your fucking pencil down

Turned on by thought of wearing a collar, sexually +1
Have worn a collar, sexually +1
Are bi-sexual +2
Maybe, under the right circumstances +1
Enjoy discipline, rules, spanking and bondage. Or think you do. +1
There are nude or sexually provocative photos of you on your phone right now +1
Any of the above is disgusting -- no, this isn't for you. Pencil down. 
If you feel safe, you will try anything once. +2
Daddy issues +1

See yourself on the deck of a sailboat in the Caribbean +1
At a Columbia University lecture +1
Hosting a dinner party +1
Never taking the subway -1
Love NYC +1
Know which team won two of the last three NCAA championships in either football or basketball +1
Boozy brunch +1
The Breakfast Club +1
Near perfect voting record +1
Can explain why Republicans will win the White House +1
Believe that will happen or that it's a good thing -1 

Tally Time. And thank you a third time for sticking though this with me. I hope it will be time well spent for both of us. 

More than 40 points -- respond immediately. I think it's imperative that I know you. You may be perfect for me, and vice versa. 
Between 35 and 39 -- respond, please. I think it's worth a conversation. This is a blunt, online quiz after all, not the MMPI (if you know what that is, add another point). 
Between 30 and 34 -- also send me an e-mail. We may be good together. Worth at least a drink or dinner or something. 
Between 25 and 29 -- if something caught your eye, say hello. 
Less than 25 -- I am sure you're a great woman and will find love and redemption. But it won't be with me. 

If you're responding, please let me know how many points you collected and what interested you about me and/or this ad. Thank you, all. Looking forward to seeing the responses. 

Cheers. 


9/2/2015 1:12:51 PM
Why does it feel wrong to be so exhausted by 4pm on Wednesday? 
8/25/2015 12:32:39 PM
ladies, girls, etc: When you meet a new Dom and you inevitably end up in his bed, don't cry about your ex. #NotSexy #NotRespectful 

Free advice. You know, at random. And absolutely not intended for anyone specifically. 
8/17/2015 6:57:18 PM
My e-mail exchange of the day: 

Upon spotting an interesting, nearby profile, I write. I ask, 'tell me about you. What do you do? Where are you from?' and the like. 

She replies she's not the one for me, which is fine. No problem. But, confused, I ask why she thinks so. Her reply, and I quote: 

"By your profile you seem stuck on looks then having a good sub girl to be with"

I'm not entirely sure that's English. I pointed out the three grammar errors in her reply and agreed that, with this evidence, she's not the girl for me. Her reply to this, proving my point entirely: 

"Lol" 

Dear other Doms in the universe, this one is all yours.

I expect better. 


8/17/2015 6:34:21 PM
I notice most everyone who expresses a racial preference in their profiles apologizes for it. 

Why? 

You're entitled to like what you like. Whatever that is. I don't apologize for being attracted to girls. Or white girls. It's what I want. I'm not sorry. 
8/17/2015 1:38:38 PM
Met a sub for the weekend -- pretty big disappointment. 

I like tears. For the right reasons, I can like them a great deal. But crying in my bed that you're not over your ex, those are not really the right reasons.

Moving on. Moving on. 
8/11/2015 1:29:51 PM
Join me for after working hours cocktail - this Friday (8/14) in NYC?

For those of you waiting for an engraved invite to meet a real Dom, this is it. Minus the engraving part.

Drop me a note, tell me about you. Let's go.
8/11/2015 7:46:16 AM
Pretty amazing thing - a girl (who's both too fat and too old for me) says she's a new, natural sub who's looking for guidance and teaching. So I write her, offering to answer questions, advice, etc. 

She deletes the e-mail without reading it. 

Which is, of course, neither submissive nor the act of someone who wants to learn. Good luck sweetheart. Ignorance is bliss and I'm sure you're delighted. There are plenty of "honest" "men" here who really have your best interests at heart. I'm sure you'll find several of them. 

Some women do deserve what they get. 
8/6/2015 3:18:00 PM
If you plan on watching tonight's debate for equal parts horror and humor, you should e-mail me. Chances are I'd like to know you. 

By that I mean if you're a submissive girl reasonably within the NYC metro area and are doing the above. Ahem.
7/31/2015 1:07:33 PM
I'd really like to meet a cute, submissive girl in a high end, Manhattan cocktail bar for a drink or two. See her in a nice, sexy dress - heels on the very edge of being slutty. Maybe a bit over the edge. 

No expectation, nothing but stimulating conversation, admiration of the eyes and a cocktail. Somewhere with a view. So I can see this beautiful City and my beautiful evening trophy. Maybe not won but deserved. 

After, perhaps dinner. Or see what's on Broadway. Just ride in the City for an hour in an uber. Less talking. Just being part of it. 

Clearly, that's too much to ask for. 
7/29/2015 7:00:29 AM
Saw a 10 running in The Park this morning. Blond, tan, fit but not muscular. Tall but not too tall. Tight pink sports bra. 

I considered throwing her over my shoulder and dragging her home. But that's frowned upon, sadly. 
7/10/2015 12:13:18 PM
I love living in NYC in the warm weather. Well, always. 

But when it's warm out, I can't go half a block without seeing a girl I want. And in Central Park, forget it. It's the greatest show on Earth. Sorry, Ringling. 
7/10/2015 7:50:49 AM
And girls continue to disappoint. 

Went out with a girl this week - nice dinner, drinks. She said all the right things, wore what I picked for her. Was on time. Sexy, of course. 

After dinner, we headed for a bar for another round. I told her she was drinking something without alcohol as she'd already had three glasses of wine at dinner. She refused and said she was leaving. I let her walk away. Done. 

Yes, she later e-mailed to say how sorry she was...bad decision...too much wine...blah blah blah. But I prize obedience, which she knew. And I replied that if someone, even a stranger, tells her she's had enough, she should listen. And I'm no stranger. 

Really too bad - she had potential. But if you can't listen to (a/your) man about matters of your own safety and personal conduct, I can't and won't do anything with you. 
6/27/2015 9:15:45 AM
Want to know what I'm looking for? 

I wrote it out and made it a quiz. In NYC area and interested? Here it is: 
http://newyork.craigslist.org/mnh/m4w/5083540203.html
6/10/2015 7:15:28 AM
My favorite quote of today. It's the start of a profile of a 20-something "domme" on this site. She writes, "Kneel, worms!"

Ahem, silly darling. Worms cannot kneel. They have no legs.

I say all the time - 20-somethings usually can't be dommes or doms. They don't know who they are yet. And can't be expected to do more than pretend - do what they think you expect. That's not dominance, it's play time. 

Show me a domme or dom in her/his late 30s to 50s and I'll buy it. Twenty-six? Twenty-two? No chance. 


3/7/2014 12:44:32 PM
Dear (mostly) girls posting profiles on CM: Kink isn't something you get into. It gets into you. It's not something you try out. It's something you can't live without. When you know the difference, you know.
8/17/2013 6:58:33 AM

Is it so hard to find a sub who likes to run or go to the gym?

 

Seriously.

 

I know I'm going to sound like a man who's only interested in physical beauty but the truth is subs reflect on their Dom. And no real Dom would settle for less than the very best.

 

7/24/2013 10:21:16 AM

What does it say that the only girls on here a really, really want to fuck (based on their pictures) are the dommes?  

7/22/2013 12:30:12 PM

Just saw this on one of those stupid "posters" people post on their profiles. Nonetheless, I liked it. Here it is:

 

It's not the collar that makes the sub. It's that she does not want the key.

 

True, I think.

5/31/2013 12:48:33 PM

Please.

 

It's not a lifestyle. It's not a choice - like dressing on the side. Some of us can't turn it off. It's not a choice. You are who you are.

 

Anyone who says they are in the "lifestyle," I ignore. They just don't get it. And I'm too old for games.

 

5/31/2013 8:00:00 AM

"Ladies" tip one for convincing anyone you are real:  make sure your zip code matches your state.

 

So many girls have "Texas" or "California" as states but a New York zip code. Really?

 

 

5/29/2013 9:18:56 AM

The. Most. Absurd. Profile. Ever.

HerPersonalATM
 
4/29/2013 1:12:58 PM

Got an email from a woman somewhere in who-knows-where telling me my journal entry about the three 'b's was awful. That I should not judge people that way and just because blah, blah something else.

 

Seriously?

 

Like I asked for your input. I know what I want. That's why we are all here, right? To find what we want?

 

If it's not for you, move along sweetheart. That she took the time to e-mail me is just funny with a sad frosting.

3/25/2013 10:53:32 AM

Why do Doms put subs "under consideration"?

 

I've never understood it. Either take the girl or don't. You know.

 

 

3/10/2013 9:49:25 AM

I was talking to another Dom a few weeks ago over drinks. He said he had three Bs which were his must-haves from a sub: Batchelor's Degree or more, Bi-sexual and B-cups or better.

 

Aside from the B-cups (I like smaller tits), I think those are good standards.

2/27/2013 2:42:51 PM

Need a good laugh? Check out this profile:

MasterSpoilMe1
 
English much?
 
 
2/27/2013 1:46:06 PM

Saw a profile today for a lesbian, transgender swith. No additional comment needed.

2/25/2013 10:54:08 AM

Aside from the age, this guy could be me: RefinedMaster

2/24/2013 11:08:06 AM

New BDSM rule: If the best photo you have is you in a bathroom (or guys, your cock), try again.

2/23/2013 1:39:45 PM

New BDSM rule: If you're under 30, chances are you're not a Dom or a Domme. Chances are you're just an asshole.

2/20/2013 2:03:20 PM

I changed my profile picture because I found this image and think it's amusing as well as  political. Which I appreciate.

 

It does not necessarily reflect my views on the subject one way or the other.

2/14/2013 11:46:51 AM

Funniest thing I've read today:

 

"I have recently decided to change my orientation to switch."

 

 

1/25/2013 12:30:35 PM

Anyone stupid enough to even talk to a 20 year-old financial Domme deserves whatever they get. Amazing.

1/23/2013 11:53:45 AM

Why do so many people here waste time? I'm real. I'm here for a reason so chances are  I will want to meet you in person. What did you think we were going to do? Chat online all the time? Seriously?

12/26/2012 12:31:06 PM

An 18-year-old Domme. Now I've seen it all.

10/21/2012 4:02:09 PM

Warning: Don't buy from Extreme Restraints - the company promoted here. They are beyond awful.

GirlsGotMoxie
 
 Age: 19
 Los Angeles, California