Interested in meeting someone in the real world. Not interested in online only

From my earliest memories, Ive been attracted to Dominant Women. I didnt have a name for it back then of course, and it wasnt even until well into college that I began to have a clue what BDSM was. For most of my twenties, I experimented, but I never found the right fit so to speak. Eventually, I settled down with someone that fulfilled enough of my submissive needs to make it work, though she was by no means a Dominant.

That ended a few years ago (though my sexual needs were not the reason at all), and I find myself once again taking tentative steps into the BDSM world, just not as shy and hopefully not as tentative this time around.

So Ive been asked a few times what Im looking for. I wish that was a simple answer! As Im really just starting out again, Im pretty open to trying new things. Im definitely not ready for anything approaching a 247 or TPE scenario. I guess the easiest way to put it is that Im looking for someone to learn and grow with. I do know that Im not comfortable just doing a scene. For me to play with someone, I need to have somewhat of a connection.

Im open to the idea of being involved with a couple in the right situation. I just dont want to feel like nothing more than a plaything.

Im not particularly modest. Ive only played publicly a few times in the past. Im interested in it, but like I said above, I need a connection.

For my vanilla interests, I love hiking and camping. Im a total dog person (I like cats too, just havent had one in a long, long time). I enjoy wood working (that certainly could be a non-vanilla interest too!). Im pretty handy around the house and cars. I enjoy Sci-fi books and movies. I recently got back into cycling.

I ldo enjoy cooking and baking. My specialties really are deserts, ask me about my famous French Silk Pie!

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99 Rope bunny
94 Submissive
63 Masochist
58 Experimentalist
49 Vanilla
46 Exhibitionist
43 Brat
42 Slave
34 Primal (Prey)
32 BoyGirl
31 Pet
25 Switch
24 Voyeur
18 Non-monogamist
9 Degradee