1/26/2022 9:33:09 PM: It’s no surprise that I have been on this site Collarme now called CollarSpace a long time since Two thousand and eight and I am becoming impatient. I try to be as transparent as possible whenever the time arises. I have been lied to way too much to do anything less than be honest and hopefully get the respect of honestly back. I have been lied to most of my life about big and small things As my birth mom would say I HATE LIES especially volunteer lies I felt that in my soul when she said that. Willingness to communicate clearly is easier said than done I have to say I put my all in everything I do and say and for many of these sites that I am on I feel like guys only see or want what they see or want and dont actually want the real deal just the fantasy of it all. I would love to find a balance between the vanilla and the S/M world. I feel like I am a very direct and transparent person but maybe I am not? I am very tired of expending resources, time, and energy on frivolous endeavors. SIGH!!!

1/5/2022 10:49:37 PM: We are now in the land of 2022  And even now after all of these years, at least on Collarme, whoops I meant to write Collarspace the thing that pisses people off the most is not what one would expect.  I think we all had our share of quote, unquote BOT PROFILES or that one LMAO several fake Doms, Dommes, or anyone for that matter The punctuation and grammar grid is irritating as hell at times.  But of all of these and some, I have not pointed out.   The biggest ASSHAT of them all is trying to keep your profile CURRENT with new information, likes or dislikes, and even updated photos.   I dare any to disagree with me, especially reading some profiles lately how some have been locked out of their accounts still PENDING approval, LIKE WTF is really going on??? One of the main reasons even as a DaddyDom I am afraid to update my account, this is supposed to be a joke but I am serious as an old man busting a nut, a heart attack!!! But I digress...

2/11/2018 1:43:17 PM: Will be updating my profile to what I seek currently and a lot has changed since my last update...Stay tuned...

4/13/2013 7:15:06 AM: I know most Doms/Dommes don’t talk about there feeling much and it's ok…. But we all have them   Many don’t know how hard it is to be a Dom or Master; it's just as hard for us to find that right 'sub, pup/kitten, slave etc' as it is for a sub to find their Master I am still looking… Might make me sound weak, but I am lonely, its been about 3 years now since I've lost my last 'pup' and lost my real dog (Shakie-Marie - Belgian Malinois) last year September 11,2012 of all days… Even though I am a Master/Handler, I have much love to give…

3/22/2013 1:57:53 PM: A REALITY CHECK   Is it that bad if the Dom/Domme says NO? For most Dom or sub it’s a worse insult if the other party just completely ignores you better yet the biggest slap in the world today is (friend-ing you and without knowledge un-friends you)   Of course it's not the end of the world but seems like theirs no one genuine or they pretend to be something their not So much bait to be hooked on, but double the heartbreak if pulled in by the wrong fisher-man/woman   It's important not to get attached too fast or too early in the reeling in of one catch; This should be understood by the hunter and his/her prey.   Both parties should not over-dramatize the situation, because investing so much emotion drains and paralyzes your ability to deifier rational thinking. In many cases the person sees danger and inadvertently falls victim anyway Always remember that whether a man accepts or rejects you, it is (usually the first contact or image) in their head that they are responding to; Since they can't possibly know who you are in REAL-TIME or any great measure until that time comes. WE (fill in the blank) need to develop the confidence that comes by experiencing both rejection and acceptance.   It is important for you to acknowledge your self-worth as a human being, and not treat yourself as you are worthless (even if you play this part, in the beginning you need to establish you are worth the humiliation, by a Dom/Domme.)   Most Doms/Dommes will say that this is an enormous turn-off in any case (behind closed doors)   Why???   Because many Doms/Dommes like and want CONTROL; Or a least feel they are in control, if you have or look like you can do for yourself that too for most Doms/Dommes is a turnoff (part of the Dom's/Domme's mating dance…)   To invest in time and effort is to find balance in self first than find a normal road to walk, Then fine someone who values themselves in a way you can emulate but not idolize… Beside the LOVE, UNDERSTANDING, DISCIPLINE AND knowing they wont LEAVE WHEN THINGS GET TOUGH   Don't be surprised if the (other party chooses another) As long as you put your best effort in it, at the least you have gotten away with increased experience in understand and more comprehension.   Just so focus on others who may desire you.   Use what you can and leave the rest behind...