2/19/2017 11:17:09 AM: I've been a member of this site for a few months now, and haven't really had too much success at all.  Many people just want a quick, one night thing; while others want a little more than I can handle in terms of time commitment, moving in, etc.  Ideally, if there was a woman around my age who was interested in a vanilla relationship publicly, but a D/s relationship privately, that would be what I'm looking for full time and in real life. Unfortunately, I don't think there are many of those on here...and it's too difficult to look through all the female profiles and find someone who is 1: serious, 2: not looking for money, 3: not a guy trying to pass himself off as a girl.I have no problem learning about submission from women or men, but too many people aren't here to 'help.'  I'm eager to please, I'm willing to learn, and I like sex, pleasing the dom, and showing what I'm wiling to do.  When serving online, I don't really care if you're a female or male...I care that we develop some form of chemistry, trust, and mutual appreciation for each other's role.  If there's anyone out there who thinks they can meet those standards, then by all means, contact me.  I'd love to hear from you.