Collarspace

I am starting to suspect this site is a wasteland. Find my FetLife if you want to get ahold of me. I think I'm done with this cobbwebb filled corner of the internet for now. I'll come by to check it out every once in a while but my expectations are low. I am a warm hearted and sadistic person. Perhaps that may seem like a contradiction but it doesn't have to be. There is something so gratifying in knowing that power exchange is mutually fulfilling. I care about the people in my life. My lovers, my friends, my family. I am an unabashed pervert but I try very hard to be decent and polite. These types of contradictions are the things that make life interesting. I hope they make me somewhat interesting as well. My interests are quite diverse so don't be fooled by my polite demeanor and the empathy I have for people. I am intense and rough and weird and dirty. I have recently been trying to get out to more fetish events and be a part of the community. If you want to chat or meet up, feel free to say hi. I still have faith that I'll meet the kinky beauty I've always dreamed of. A bio of sorts: I am a sometime singer of songs. Irredeemably nerdy, mostly in an academic/intellectual kind of way. So far left I'm falling off the table. Perverse, profane, and polite. Sincere and unsuperficial. Empathetic. Open minded. My sense of humor is a bit odd, somewhere between disturbed absurdity and banal dad humor. It's a big part of my personality, I like making people laugh. I've done stand up a few times and I'm a bit of a comedy nerd. I love indie music, classic rock, soul music, electronic, post rock, punk, shoe gaze, and classical music. I studied psychology and history in Montreal at McGill. I now work in real estate appraisal. I love good whisky (usually bourbon, or scotch) and red wine, cold beer, or any other well mixed cocktail. I have an insatiable appetite, literally and metaphorically, and a lust for life. Cheers!