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	BDSM One lifestyle, but different opinions and practices (about this thesis see below in my profile) Please take your time to read this big profile update (110913) after a lot of years beeing here resuming my experiences here if - you are NOT a fake - you are NOT a moneytribute domme (asking for gifts to speak with you includes this) - you are NOT an online domme - you are NOT a professional domme, which is only here to get new clients, because it is cheaper than a professional website 1. About me My name is Bernd, I am 37 years old. I am in this lifestyle for10 years in and out. Beside the lifestyle I enjoy running, swimming, mountainbiking, climbing (especially KlettersteigVia Ferrata), listening to music and so much more. I am well-educated, have an academic degree, certified PRINCE2 Practitioner, Lean Six Sigma Black Belt, certified ScrumMaster (well, thats an easy to get certificate, but I really live and love agile methods) and I am working as an IT project manager. Well, as you can see, my english is not perfect, but I am working on it, It should be good enough to understand what I am saying. If you find grammar erros (I am sure you do) you can keep them -) 2. Okay, now about my experience after8 years here I have met a lot of scammers here, a lot of fakes and cam models, people which try to get only money and which are not really in the lifestyle. But I also met 2 nice persons (dommes) here for real. They are both no longer here on collarme and I unfortunately lost contact. For one, she was from Luxemburg I drove there in vacations, a semi-professional and we had a nice time, although we played not much, but that was my own mistake. Something goes wrong sometime. The other one was a nice one from UK, which came to Munich for visiting me and I showed her the best parts of the city and we also played a lot. Unfortunately we did not get further. Well, what I want to say with this, it is possible to meet people here, also with possible experiences. 3. About my pics I know, that some of you dommes dont like to see those pics at first. You want to see face pics and I can understand that. But for me it is self-protection. It is easier for a domme to upload face pics in the internet than for a sub in a superiour position in job listyle is not sociable acceptable in germany and for a submissive there can be more consequences in job life than for a domme, especially in a superior position. I uploaded the pics to prove that I am into this lifestyle, real face pics I will only send personally. 4. One lifestyle, different opinions My topic at the beginning of my profile. Well, I am reading a lot in dommes profiles and journals. A lot of you want, that a subslave only have to serve you without thinking of his own desires. Now my opinion Do you think this is realistic? Do you know Maslows hierarchy of needs? Okay, BDSM is not contained, but sexual needs, and BDSM is a sexual need wether it contains casual sexual methods or not. So, a true subslave wants to fulfill the dommes needs, BUT he also has his own needs and also expect to fulfill them. I dont think that there is a submissive person in this world, which only want to live as a total . If shehe really exists, shehe needs really help. 5. What I am looking for I am really searching a for serious relationship containing the bdsm lifestyle. But I am only submissive and masochistic and straight, I cant switch and I am definetly not bisexual. Well, as long as I am single, I can also be just a play partner, but that is not my main target. But I am also open to nice conversations. Thank you very much for reading.

2/10/2014 11:23:36 AM

Lol, I really need to post his conversation. I disguised her profile a bit. She is so amazing intellectual in her words and in her video message, rofl. If you want to know her collarme profile, message me, you may or may not get the information:

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	Dated:	2/10/14 4:53 PM


	I see you looking with your looking ass,i have a message for you,look at my video entry on my journal

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chosen on 2/10/14 at 8:06 PM:

Hello XXXX,

thank you very much. I did watch it.

Unfortunately I have to say the following:

1. You started a profile which is open to see for everyone with any collarme account. So please expect that people are looking at, which may or may not result into a response.

2. I don't want to get in contact with you, because you are too high-educated for me. Your excellent grammar told me that, also your excellent way to speak. I am too stupid for you, sorry :-(

3. I am also not a native english speaker, so your english is sooooooooooooo much better than mine. That makes no sense.

Anyway, I wish you a very good luck in your search.

Kind regards

chosen

8/24/2012 6:54:10 PM

8/24/2012 9:18:40 PM: This is a thesis for everyone (also for myself): If you say the profile from {insert nickname} is a fake, how can you prove, you are not a fake for yourself? That was just a thinking, when I read profiles here. And the answer can't be: Because I have a voice message, because I have a pic with my nickname or because I have a video message. That only prove your gender, but not that you are serious with bdsm. In that context, I can understand the dominant females here, if they want a tribute alone for getting into contact to eliminate the waste, but seriously, how can the serious check, that you are serious? Just think about that, thank you and good evening :-)

11/22/2010 2:48:10 PM

There was a report about money mistresses and blackmail on german TV a few minutes ago. LOL, I really can't understand that other males would love to pay for nothing. You get nothing for free. Well, I mean, also a mistress get attention through her acting, if it is with online domination ( I really don't like that yet, pls don't get me wrong) or with real time domination or life time relationship for example.

I would maybe understand that, if that are males, which are rich, but they are usual people like me in this documentation. And they are not into pain or into real bdsm, they just pay. And the money mistresses are not really into the lifestyle, that is nothing about bdsm, that is arrogance of women, which only want to have a lot of money (I earn my money, because of working, imho earning money for doing nothing is dishonorable). But I also think it is not justiciable. In this documentation they were asking, if a public prosecutor is determining, but there is not. I also don't think, that there is a reason. If males are stupid like that, they just deserve it. Only morally it is not acceptable.

Don't get me wrong, I do give gifts to women and of course my submission, but that is an abuse of the lifestyle of the serious of us.

btw, I was a bit disappointed, that there was no conclusion, why men do pay them. Well, why so-called mistresses do things like that, I don't need an answer ;-)