I have been in the lifestyle for a few years now, and have been lucky enough to have met some good people. I have experience with bondage,(love gags, blindfolds, and hoods), latex, rubber and the occasional heavy flogging, up to and including single tail whips.

I am interested in meeting a woman, a partener for life, someone that I can experience this lifestyle with , and hopefully end in a trust worthy lovable based relationship with. 

Meaningful Things; - Sunday mornings on the sofa with coffee and paper. Watching kids play in the surf. Discovering a new restaurant. A good, hard run. Making a good friend laugh so hard they cry. Being smart enough to walk away. A long drive, with a good destination. Feeling well groomed. People who only say what they really mean. Watching home movies. Knowing I can change the tire. Holberg Suite. Loosing a whole day in a good book. A plane ride with someone I love. Being able to get the check. Learning. The smell of cut grass. Boys’ night out. A clean conscience. Drink mescal in Mexico. Eucalyptus. Cuddling a scared child. A fantastic dinner. A quiet mind. Watching friends enjoy themselves. Making-up. Making-out. The scent of the woman I love. Climbing naked into clean sheets. Solving a problem. Roasting marshmallows. A summer rainstorm. Repaying a favor. Leaving on vacation. What We Talk About When We Talk About Love, by Raymond Carver. Finding what was lost. Skiing in fresh, Stryn powder. Teaching someone. Family. Accomplishing a goal. Being told thank you. Endorphins. Having been missed. A dog’s excitement when you reach for the leash. Keeping a secret and a promise. Massaging a lover. Doing a puzzle. Listening to a friend tell a story. Dewey fairways. Needing no one, wanting someone. Patient people. Hearing my lover come home. Make a perfect omelet. Live life.