I have a soft heart that wants to love, and be deeply loved back. I also have flesh that wants to be caressed just as much as it needs to be hurt and wear the marks of my owner. My obedience and devotion are absolute, but they do not come easily or quickly and I know that no real Dominant would want them to. I lean towards a DD/lg dynamic and generally prefer the title of Daddy out of love and respect, but only in the context of an adult woman. One of my most adored things is to be curled up close, or to kneel while being pet by my Dom, but any sort of age play is a hard limit. I am a strong woman and have no interest in any "Dom" who finds this intimidating, and many do. My ideal partner will be proud of my strength as a positive reflection back on his guidance and training of me, understanding that a submissive woman need not be a doormat.

I seek a Dom who is confident in himself and his place with a woman who is always looking to please and serve him, not as a slave, but as a lover and his most treasured possession. A man who will always keep me safe and offer me comfort and care after he causes physical pain. I love to learn and be taught new things, sharing new experiences, in a slow, comfortable, healthy environment with a Dom I can trust, and that trust is not only the most important attribute of any relationship I have, but it is also an absolute deal breaker; I believe nearly any other issue can be worked through, but not with a man who would ever intentionally deceive me. I am most drawn towards the psychological aspects of D/s; for me, the physical (as much as I enjoy it) cannot exist without a strong mental connection. When I feel that I am yours, no matter where I am or what I am doing, whether or not you are with me, when each of my decisions is influenced by the question, "will this please my Dominant?", I will know I have found my mate if he feels equally as proud to have me as exclusively his.