My purpose being here is to continue to learn and grow. My original profile and journal entries remain intact to help reveal 'who' I am.
The best single word deion of me would be - complicated.
I am 'different', 'peculiar', and 'cut from a different cloth'. I do not fit within a tidy box.
I am prone to over-analyze virtually everything. I generally function several moves ahead of other people.
I have an affinity for carefully considered and well constructed thoughts, words, and actions. This often causes frustration for me because I function at a different level from the general populace and all of my effort is lost on them.
I am friendly but reserved.
I have extremely high moral standards.
I can be distant.
I think I have a superb sense of humor ( but I might have difficulty providing references.) (Just ask me and I will tell you!)
When in a particularly good mood, I will sing inappropriate songs from musicals while in the shower, but never with my outback hat on, although now that I have thought of this .......................
My favorite place on this planet is the bottom of the ocean !
There is a special place in my heart for turtles ?
My true name means 'comfort'.
My favorite 'album' (see I am dated) is Tea for The Tillerman by Cat Stevens, although I am very much pleased and comforted by Nora Jones and Dianna Krall. The single song which has touched me most is Sammy's Song by David Bromberg. (I have never searched for it but good luck finding it!) I played my copy once, recording it for my use.
I have achieved True friendship four times in my life so far! Two have died. All four were men.
I am always in control of myself. I am definitely 'dominant'.
There is no room in my heart to share dominance in a relationship - internally or externally.
I do not seek 'experiences', 'practice', or 'playing' - Real Life Only!
I have no interest in satisfying someone's Curiosity or Fantasy - Real Life Only!
I am compassionate.
I am generous.
I enjoy 'shoe shopping' with a Lady!
I go out of my way to show kindness and consideration to others.
My life ambition is to be known as a good person.
I also want to: Find Myself, Share my World, and Experience Peace.
I AM A POSITIVE INFLUENCE ON THIS WORLD !!!
I could never knowingly harm another person (I am not talking about discipline, limit exploration, or playing.)
I do not think I am capable of humiliation either - I have too much respect and empathy for others to even pretend convincingly.
Drugs have no place in my world.
I was a long term smoker and enjoy the smell of a freshly lit cigarette, but I do not think I would be happy around a heavy smoker. In all of my years of smoking, I never smoked in my house (even when it was 10 degrees below zero.)
Lastly, I do not think it is inconsistent for someone Dominant to be vulnerable, or to privately cry, or to have trembling hands. I am certainly no expert, but I do not think of Dominance and Submission as separate things, merely facets of a single thing shared. Separate sides of the same coin! I also think that if a relationship does not have such a thing shared, it will not last, or in the very least, it will not be satisfying for both people ;-)
I regard M/s and Dom/sub as a partnership with each member having equal importance. Each contributes to the whole.
I am looking for a Lady who knows herself well and refuses to settle for less than she deserves.
I also do not choose to Settle
For Me it is All or Nothing
I am no fanatic and I am no scholar, but I am of the Jewish faith. If you cannot tolerate a decent and moral person of another faith, we will have no future.
My Lady will also need to have the capacity to mentally connect specifically with me and she must have the capacity to forgive. I will evolve and improve, but I will also make mistakes along the way.
Maybe it is just a selfish perspective ........
But it seems to me that my outlook, beliefs, and philosophy may be the best possible ones for the right person .......
I really don't care what every other Dom is like, my objective is to find myself, share my world, and experience Peace and Happiness.
If my outlook and philosophy appeals to you, please contact me.
I am Gauis here but Gauis21 when I aim to talk to other people or use the singing cowboy.