I believe that there is no such thing as a casual D/s dynamic. The reasoning behind people coining this term in the first place is simply is to justify the lack of emotional and mental dissatisfaction caused by engaging in this type of temporary relationship. 

Often because the need for exploring and meeting the physical, fantasy, desire to serve, and carnal overpower the desire to find a person seeking the same dynamic. Knowing what you want, but just not finding it. The problem is not you. The problem is that there are not many D’s per capital to subs seeking that type of commitment. The s settles to quail the physical needs without short term consideration of the emotional or mental well-being.

The dynamic is casual play partner or partners. The reason being that one play partner or the other is simply not looking for a D/s commitment of what you have designed in your head, and are truly seeking. The truth stand point is those boundaries set forth clear in the beginning. That is the trust or honesty clause when playing it up. Both parties are fulfill a physical needs only, and often times do not include sex.

If you are a sub, and in a causal play partner dynamic; this can be one of the most difficult times if you can’t control and recognize the difference from what type of dynamic you are in as compared to what you really want.

Think of it more like a hook up. The difference is a pairing for meeting mutual carnal needs. Both parties getting what that need without emotional attachment.

The problem arise in causal play partner dynamic relationships when the s thinks that they can change the dynamic into a D/s or gives more mentally than they should. This is a direct consent violation to the D as those are not the terms or boundaries set forth from discussing the play partnership. Subs wonder at this time why they D is distant or just disappears. Communication slacks off. You are a liability at this point and the D wants nothing to do with a greedy needy sub. He just wants the Fun sub you agreed to be to serve him.

You can’t change what someone is not willing to give or give up. You can change your outlook in playing in this manner. You can except that you are a toy, doll, other women, second whatever you want to call it.  You can leave at FUN with no strings.

It is this simple. He is using you to feel a need of his. Nothing more and nothing less. Once you can accept that just as it is the better off you will be.

If you can’t handle that, then don’t engage in casual play. Wait for what you want.

Unglued. Dodged a bullet today. I bit my tongue so hard I could taste copper, and feel the sting. I needed the strength and bravery of my inner bitch to get composer and get the hell out. “Stupid, stupid, girl”, the thought that keep rolling through my head as I speed away. Time to take her home and get soaked in bleach scrubbing every word and scent of you off my skin and out of my memory.

Sometimes the control alluded or Mindfuck is all a whore needs to let go. It is the unsung command or rather your will that bends a whore to freedom. The stilling of the mind, demanded focus, and crackle of energy thickening the air as the animal emerges. The whore’s cord plucked like a fined tuned instrument to your needs. An over active sense of Need to let you have your way and be pleasing to your torturous lament. A dark song that only is sung in the pooling depths of your strong influential stare. Hungry eyes that bring forth the monster within. Dark, cold, and unforgiving. Whore knowing the dark tune of what kneeling means.

 No mercy can be found in this place only solace by your hand of sweet release through the pleasure of tears. The stream of salty liquid flowing like a fountain from behind whore’s covered eyes. Whore can feel the monster’s delight as you brush your length across her thigh while finishing the tie off of the last cord of her breasts. Whore’s nipples like stone as the flogger continues to kiss the purple flesh. The cane is pure pleasure. Harder beast, harder, again, and again; take all you desire. Use up your whore, and she will beg you to let her pleasure you.  
Clarity knowing a whore is not seeing essence of a gentleman, but rather looking into the stained red eye window pane of beast and embracing it.

There is no tenderness in your touch just pure raw intolerance for disobedience. Sadistic animal framed in the glass of whore’s soul. Blissful stillness with each weight pulling the purple flesh of whore’s tits. Whore’s arousal dripping wetting her thighs dancing with the monster. Wanting to show the beast what a good whore she is. The three holed wet wet whore that the monster enjoys.

With each tormented pulse of the dance, whore’s thoughts are of begging to suck the monster dry or being covered in the glistening pearls of the monster truly putting a whore in her proper place. Open, vulnerable, and for use of the sadistic beast.

The slow dark descent in dancing with a monster is not locked in the physical flesh, but mostly in recesses of a whore’s mind.

A good Mindfuck can beneficial to dancing with a Monster.