A lot of years in and out of the kink scene. Too many creative pursuits to attach myself to it fulltime. Looking to settle down with a smart, selective kinky woman who can challenge me in and out of bed. Accomplished sex journalist, music producer and dj in SF. I have a great job, a ton of interests and plenty of imagination. I was raised in SF and have a lot of friends locally. I've been in the lifestyle for over 10 years and have been in several kinky relationships.

I'm genuinely attractive, non pushy / non desperate, sexually gifted and alot of fun both in and out of bed...

I want to meet a sexually charged, vocal woman who embraces her kinky impulses without any shame or regret.

I love taking charge, rough physical sex, objectification, toys, role play, bdsm… whatever… If it’s intense and kinky, I am probably going to be into it…. Lets talk about it… after we sit down together, I think you’d agree that I’m the type of guy who is safe to explore with. My sexuality is not rooted in any harmful disdain for women. I love women but I also know that many of them crave power exchange and love being transformed into a sex object.

ideally you have Betty Page's libido with Dorothy Parkers mind... lets chat if you're up for the challenge...