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Wakingupred
| Hetero Female, 44, Kansas City, Missouri
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Kansas City Missouri Willing to Relocate 5' 6"
210 lbs
44
Hetero
Caucasian
08/29/23 |
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I have been in the lifestyle on and off for most of my adult life, exploring BDSM, Kink, and just my overall slutty nature so sufficed to say, Im definitely not a newbie.
Ive had casual play partners and long term 247 and I definitely prefer long term. That is where the meat and bones are, that is where the magic happens. The trust builds and walls crumble and next thing you know, youre comfortable sharing and growing together.
I do tend to fight what I know I need, not really sure why but fair warning, Im a challenge. This life is in my blood though and lets face it, once youve had a taste and liked it youre hooked. So here we go...
Im looking for a Dominant man 38-55, not married, who is good at life and equally good at enjoying it. A Dom who takes pride in his appearance and likes to be active. Strong and capable but kind and humble at the same time. A man who knows when to be gentle and snugly and when to push and expand boundaries. I believe a stern look and a steady voice can be just as binding as rope or shackles.
Outside the bedroom I fall more in line with traditional stereotypes, I am a woman whos strong enough and independent enough to take care of myself, but old school enough that I prefer to differ to my Dom as the head of the household.
Short term I want a partner that I can get to know, enjoy spending time with and explore our kinks together and see if they mesh. Long term I want a relationship full of mutual respect and honest communication free of judgement so we can grow together.
I need structure and rules in my life even if I fight them occasionally. Knowing where I stand and what is expected of me is extremely important. Communication and openness creates an environment where I can feel free to explore and try new things.
Im picky as fuck but then we all should be! I am an equally strong and intelligent woman with a lot to give. I am a professional woman with various interests and hobbies who loves good conversation, great music and has a zest for life.
Poly is never going to work for me so if you arent looking for your special someONE then Im not your girl.
-- I am extremely liberal in my politics and life choices i.e abortion, birth control, lgbtq rights and separation of church and state. I pretty much ditest all organized religions and am an avid gun hater so if any of that bothers you we wont be a match.
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3/8/2018 1:21:23 PM: In lieu of all to often and very recent events... if you refuse or can not verify you are who you say you are don’t bother messaging me. This is a dating site so I fail to see how requesting a picture is a major request or a picture on something with your name on it after we’ve chatted. There are some scary fuckers out there and a girl has to cover her ass to be safe. If you can’t understand that then you aren’t the man for me anyway!
2/17/2018 8:13:19 PM: No longer a redhead but I still love waking up red. ;)
1/10/2018 3:01:29 AM: I cannot emphasize this enough....
NO PICTURE = NO REPLY
11/5/2016 12:15:58 PM: I know most of you don't read profiles let alone journal entries but I'm very serious when I say I WILL NOT RESPOND WITHOUT A PHOTO OR IF YOUR PROFILE PIC IS YOUR COCK! Have some class for Christ sake!
3/25/2016 8:20:44 AM: Shallow Vs. Attraction
As a submissive woman I hear often from men online that physical attraction shouldn’t matter. I beg to differ and in a big way!
I am a thick, curvy, opinionated, wild haired woman and not for the faint of heart but believe me, my submission is true for the right man. There is a debate that submission isn’t about looks or sex and to a certain extent, that is very true, but let’s face it some of us are looking for more than potential and occasional play. Some of us are looking for a lifetime partner to share everything with, and by everything that includes sex. Sex is so important to a healthy relationship and if one or both parties are not physically attracted then it is doomed to fail no matter how much admiration and respect is underneath. While I also know that slight attraction can certainly grow into more over time there has to be an initial spark in order to light that flame. This may definitely not be true for all but it certainly is in my case and I don’t feel its an unreasonable request to have at least a spark. So if I’m not your cup of tea, no offense taken and if you are not mine, please be respectful!
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