Hi .. 

If you could write down your dream relationship, what would be written on paper and how would being there make you feel?

 Put aside the vanilla and BDSM labels. The only important thing is deciding what you want and finding someone who will listen and can turn your dream into a reality, and build it together.

 There’s no right or wrong.  No do’s and don’ts.  Ever.

 Usually it’s ladies first, but here I’m going to describe what I want. Not because I’m “dominant”, but because I was here first.  This is my profile, remember?

 My relationship is a safe place to express ourselves verbally, physically, sexually, emotionally and psychologically.  We share love and care that’s been built on friendship, respect and trust in each other.  We embrace our dominant and submissive roles with the desire to develop them.  We can rely on each other.  We enjoy life, and have a positive and encouraging dynamic.

 I won’t go further than that foundation on a public profile – there’s private messages for a reason :)

 I’m naturally dominant yet also choose and desire control and dominance in a relationship.  Somewhat of a contradiction in many ways, I’m level headed and pragmatic yet adventurous and creative, travel the straight road yet detour through the least visited corners, romantic yet dirty and deviant, follow the rules yet seek a partner in crime.

 Thanks for reading. If this sounds like a dream worth exploring for you then write to me .. I look forward to your message!