software dev, strategy gamer.

Never ended up feeling inferior to any doms, so I dont sub. I have a (wonderful) slave of my own, a (amazing) boyfriend who is also dominant, and I use his (exceptional) slaves. I dont normally have time to play, but Im happy to chat when Im online.

My primary fetish is status differentiation--subs and slaves serving dominants because both parties identify the dominant as being superior and deserving the subs reverence and obedience. I believe any kind of notion that one person is inherently better than another is wrong, but it is incredibly erotic. I also think consenting individuals can elect to value one person higher than another, and if they do then at least within their perspectives the former is indeed so far superior as to deserve the latters obedience.

I like the concept of 247 TPE. Humiliation and degradation are so naturally intertwined with my main fetish that theyre almost synonymous. Foot worship is, for me, a wonderful of humiliation--the combination of symbolism and sexual physicality of it synergizes very well.

I dont find pup play itself very interesting--projecting the personality of a specific type of animal doesnt really have much place in my fetishes. However, I do find a vast majority of the trappings of pup play overlap with my kink interest. Collars, nudity, being disallowed to use furniture, led on leashes, kept in cages, forced to eat healthy mush from bowls on the floor, and required to crawl on all fours--all of these imply a sub-human, animalistic status, strip a sub of dignity, and imply he is merely property and a possession, unable to be an equal to deservingly free men, and instead is an inferior deservedly beaten in to service.

Chastity, too, I find endearing and erotic. The denial of pleasure to a submissive, especially when contrasted with his sexual use by his better for his betters pleasure, is a wonderful display of how the submissives desires and pleasure are irrelevant in comparison to the desires and pleasure of his betters. Continued and permanent chastity emphasize a boys impotence and the irrelevance of his desires when any amount of his effort could be spent finding ways to serve his betters.

I find corporal punishment mostly edifying as a mechanism for demonstrating power and possessiveness over the sub. The appropriate use of discipline in training an inferior seems like a natural and good reinforcement that the dominant has the right to determine and modify the submissives behavior and very mindset and outlook.