Hi

Right, so no one likes reading these days so I'm going to put this is sections. 

What I'm looking for:

I don't have a ton of experience with this site, but I suspect I'm not using it for what most people seem to be using it, but basically I'm looking for a real relationship. The type that could be anything from something not so serious but hugely fun, or the type that builds into something beautiful and long lasting. Basically, like most other normal (I believe the term is vanilla) relationships. People meet, and maybe they like each other for fun, or maybe they see something they love in the person and end up married 5 years later. The point is, as much as I do want a long term relationship, I don't believe you can just decide to have one. I like to chat to all people; and maybe we're suited for something short term, and maybe something long term. I don't know. 

A note on this online nonsense:

I hate these online forums... The reason I'm on here and not out meeting people is that the latter works fine, until a point; Until the point when I explain that in addition to being a perfectly decent person I'm also into some other things. So I figured maybe if I lead with that I won't waste my and other peoples' time. 

Me:

So who am I? I am, what I consider to be, a normal guy with some differences. I'm an academic type and obsessed with detail and perfection. I'm reasonably tall and slim and live a healthy lifestyle - I like to run and cycle a lot. I'm turned off by in a big way by people who are overweight and don't care much for their health. I am a numbers type of person; maths and physics are my academic disciples and my day-to-day work makes me use those skills a lot. I am originally from England, but spent a lot of my life moving between countries. I now move wherever work takes me as I'm in a specialised field. I've had a number of relationships, but they've always lacked (or at least there have been issues relating to) the BDSM aspect. I am a dominant person in all my relationships, and in a romantic relationship I need to be with a submissive person. Not a slave - I'm not looking for ownership but rather submission. I'm not a sexist that thinks that all females should submit to all males, but rather that I am a dominant person, and I need a girl who is submissive.

So from a day to day relationship point of view I'm looking for a fairly normal relationship. I'm attracted to girls who are intelligent, healthy, shy, dress elegantly, and are introverted. From a BDSM perspective I am into most of the general aspects, stopping short of the very hardcore things. I have no interests in causing permanent changes to people bodies. I am particularly interested in dressing in the sense of making my sub dress how I wish; you could say I have a clothing fetish and that latex is something I love, although it is just one of many styles I like. Some days I might want my sub to be covered head to toe in latex, some days I'd want them to be a school girl slut, some days I'd want them to be in sexy swimwear, some days I'd want them to be a goth, some days I'd want them to be a total doll, some days I'd want them to be in wet look club wear. I enjoy being sexual with a partner while they're still dressed as I find some clothing textures more sexual than just skin.

If anything I've said here makes you think we might be friends, send me a message. I know I don't have a profile picture. The reason for this is that collarspace profiles are not restricted to a login area - they can be accessed publicly and that's not something I'm game with. But once we talk I'd be happy to share more personal information including pictures. 

S.