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	I am demisexual, so my sexual interest is slow to begin. Overtly sexual messages from new people are a pretty big turn off. I now own a house and a barn with a decent amount of woods. Due to some major life changes, Ive done some rethinking about what I want. Im going to describe my ideal, but I am open to other possibilities. I need a deeply submissive women with a high sex drive, to humiliate and control. I am not much of a sadist, but there will be some pain. I am a deeply passionate person and very affectionate. Outside of our relationship I want my submissive to be a strong independent woman. I would even like her to be my partner in life outside of our sexual relationship. I am looking for long term as a goal, but willing to try shorter term to gauge interest. I am capable of taking more control than I have described, I just find that in vanilla life someone that is a doormat wont get along with me or be able to travel in my social circles other than as arm candy. Ive done that it just isnt my ideal. I am not active in the community. I have some friends that are. I am sane safe and consentual. I just have some philosophical disagreements with the community at large and find that its not for me. Im not unwilling to attend events in it if its your thing, but I will likely be miserable. I have had no real luck here, but have been rather successful finding kink partners on vanilla site. However, should a meet happen it will be public and low risk likely coffee. I move very slowly into relationships, because Im very slow to trust and despite common wisdom here a Dom needs to know and trust a sub as much as a sub must trust a Dom for play to actually be safe. If thats not for you, than neither am I. Im really only looking real-time, so be local or willing to eventually relocate. Always happy to chat with folks about vanilla stuff.

12/31/2017 9:46:44 PM

It's unlikely my 2018 could be worse than 2017, so upwards and onwards.

8/10/2017 12:52:25 PM

I think I just got block because of autocorrect. Lol.

7/26/2017 6:08:22 AM

I am going to be extremely busy for the next month or so. I will try to respond to messages, but will be less active.

7/22/2017 6:19:17 AM

The duality of man.

7/16/2017 5:00:53 PM

I get 503 bad gateway errors whenever I try to send pictures is that just me?

7/16/2017 12:05:46 PM

"Good men don't need rules. Today is not the day to find out why I have so many."

6/24/2017 5:18:15 PM

"Fallen angels have always been my people"

6/6/2017 10:33:09 AM

Under promise, over deliver. That's my brand of humble.

5/30/2017 10:34:14 PM

I keep odd hours, and everyone goes to bed. It's sad.

2/17/2017 9:08:57 PM

I really need more friends to chat with late at night.

2/10/2015 5:47:01 PM

The majority of people on here exhaust me.

11/10/2014 4:04:20 PM

Often the why is more interesting to me than the what.

11/9/2014 4:36:59 PM

FYI, if I don't respond to your first message it simply means I'm not interested. It has been my experience that replying to messages saying "I'm not interested" seems to start a debate with you over my interest, which is ultimately pointless. I know what I want, it's hard to find, and if you aren't it, I promise it's nothing personal.

10/8/2014 3:08:00 PM

My auto complete jumps to humiliate very quickly and often.

4/20/2014 3:56:40 PM

The show I'm on this week is insanely boring.

6/23/2012 3:57:15 PM

The term polyamory offends me. Now not the ideas behind the word, though they do not appeal to me, I can understand them. However, polyamory is simply polygamy. If you prefer the idea "amor" implying love rather than marriage then the term ought to be multiamory. I do not enjoy mixing Greek and Latin roots and if you do we can't be friends.

6/22/2012 6:13:52 PM

Every time someone says, "_______ is better than sex", I tell them they are doing it wrong.

6/12/2012 11:47:59 PM

Lately this site has been nothing but a headache. So I have not been on as much and have not/will not be as good about returning messages. Sorry for the inconvenience, but I am sure I will be back on more eventually after I forget why I stopped coming on.

5/23/2012 4:17:49 PM

Well now that I complain about the job the tell me I didn't get it. Which is fine really I am happy to know that I am staying and that I don't have to back out of work I've committed too. It does however mean that I am spending the summer living alone. Already have maybe two friends who will come visit (platonically).

5/23/2012 3:00:51 AM

My insomnia is acting up again. I am worrying about money to some degree. The bigger issue I think is that I am waiting to hear about a job and they are jerking me around. I will be fine either way, but its a very life changing opportunity and I need to know which way it is going to go so I can plan for the future.

Also depending on how this job goes I may be living alone for 3 months and I always go a bit mad when left alone for any length of time. So I have been trying to get people to visit me. Maybe even get someone to move in for a while.

2/29/2012 10:40:30 PM

I spend my days at work sitting in a dark room doing nothing trying to stay awake then I go home and lay in bed in a dark room doing nothing trying to fall asleep. This cycle is not working out well.

8/12/2011 10:04:57 PM

I get really upset every time a fictional crime show portrays masters/dominant men as abusive or murders. We get a bad enough reputation for the things we actually do (normal lifestyle activities).

I personally think rape or sexual crime of any kind is the worst kind of crime. I have my entire life come to the defense or aid of women in distress. I am too upset by this horrible portrayal of a serial killing so called "master" that I cannot even form cohesive thoughts to explain what I mean.

7/26/2011 10:38:47 PM

I stumble on all sorts of random things while I am wasting my time on this site. What I just noticed is there are folks on here whose kinks are thinks I dont even think of as being kinky.

Spanking? I have done that in vanilla relationships. I mean sure I have done it in D/s relationships too, but really is that not vanilla?

Maybe I have just strayed so far vanilla sex that I cannot even understand what that means any more. I mean vanilla sex includes more than just guy on girl missionary sex doesn't it?

My mind is splattered on the walls......

7/13/2011 9:26:12 PM

Work is keeping me way to busy and interfering with my sex life.

6/24/2011 9:52:24 PM

I really need a few lesbian friends. I dont get along with men really at all and I could really use some women in my life who have no interest in me romantically while still having lots in common with me.