Collarspace

Looking to make new friends within the community. Curious to learn from others and gain a deeper understanding of what makes us the way we are. Would love to meet some like-minded people to help unearth each others darkest desires in a nurturing, supportive way. I'm a closet geek with a quiet love of computer games. I'm a long way from being a hippy though I seem to have quite a bit in common with them (such as a growing fascination with astrology, ethnic jewellery and sacred images). I don't consider myself religious though have a spiritual side and am learning vipassana meditation. My spiritual interests may sound a little out there for some, though I am trained in psychological science and consider myself a critical thinker and pragmatist. I'm often quiet and introspective, though inside I'm overflowing with passion and grounded intensity. I have a deep affection for music and love to hear new styles. I used to play guitar in metal bands and produced dance music for a while. I love films and film analysis which I did for a local radio film show. I tend to be quiet in social situations though this rapidly disappears behind closed doors. My kink side is dark and intense. I feel comfortable as both Dom and sub; roles I gravitate into naturally depending on who I'm with and how I'm feeling. So far my Dom side has a tendency toward discipline, training, personal development etc. The main theme seems to be a dark, harshness coming from the compassionate desire to help the sub face their weaknesses and overcome them. So far my sub side can be childlike and innocent, needing nurturing and also deeply devoted and worshipping. Thanks for reading and I hope to hear from you. I won't say "I don't bite"...I DO bite! Jack V