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I wanted a name that conveyed more about what I am into. And I figured this one was better than naming myself MentalMaster :)
Describing what I'm into, and my motivation behind it, it's always very difficult. Especially given I'm trying to do it in a condensed, yet thoughtful way that will allow you to evaluate if our wants, and desires are inline without wasting too much of your time.
First and foremost I'm interested in the mental aspects of BDSM, fully aware that if you capture the mind, the body will easily follow. I'm more of the sensual and erotic type. But based upon mood I can get into anything for slow, sensual erotic teasing, that brings you to the brink only to have your orgasm prolonged for hours as you squirm helplessly, to rough, raw, animalistic primal fucking.
I am adept at being able to read my partners body, the way it reacts to touching and teasing, I like to push it a bit, but never crossing boundaries. I take particular enjoyment in opening up my partners eyes to a side of her sexuality she has never known, making her orgasm in ways she didn't know were possible or likeable for her.
I'm big on orgasm control, tease and denial etc.
The most attractive and arousing quality a person can have is intelligence. I value that above everything else, especially when a woman knows how to turn that intelligence into sensuality, and a great sense of humor. A great ass is a close second. :)
A sub that serves because she has a drive to please rather than a threat of punishment, if that makes sense. While discipline and punishment can be a fun behavior modification tool, I derive real pleasure from infiltrating your mind, then your body of course :)
While taboo in our society, spanking fetishes are actually very common. Many men and women fantasize about it, but most don't do anything about it for fear of being judged.
There is something so erotic about and sensual about trusting another enough to allow yourself to be taken over his knee. Knowing you won't be abused, your vulnerability won't be taken advantage of. Spanking isn't about inflicting pain, or about asserting ones dominance, it's about a person giving themselves to another, knowing that the spanker will reward their trust by giving them what they have longed for, for so long. Feeling yourself being teased, your little bottom turning pink as you squirm on my lap, feeling how aroused it makes you to be at my mercy, yet trusting me enough, developing a deeper bond with each sensual swat of the bottom.
I know I didn't do a great job encompassing everything. But does this sound like the type of D/s you envision, or is what you're into completely different?
I enjoy talking with fellow Dominants. It is often the case that we have much in common.
Please use complete sentences. The most attractive quality a woman can have is intelligence. And while use of complete sentences doesn't guarantee intelligence, the absence of it, almost certainly insists a lack of mental fortitude or effort, both of which are big turn offs.
The pic is just some random internet pic -- I did not take it.....
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While taboo in our society, spanking fetishes are actually very common. Many men and women fantasize about it, but most don't do anything about it for fear of being judged.
There is something so erotic about and sensual about trusting another enough to allow yourself to be taken over his knee. Knowing you won't be abused, your vulnerability won't be taken advantage of. Spanking isn't about inflicting pain, or about asserting ones dominance, it's about a person giving themselves to another, knowing that the spanker will reward their trust by giving them what they have longed for, for so long. Feeling yourself being teased, your little bottom turning pink as you squirm on my lap, feeling how aroused it makes you to be at my mercy, yet trusting me enough, developing a deeper bond with each sensual swat of the bottom.
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It seems as though 95% of the profiles I see with Asian women have the word "asian" "azn" or some variant somewhere in the user name. I don't see this trend with any other race. Any thoughts as to why? Do you think the women that come up with the username think we won't be able to tell they are Asian from the picture they have posted? |
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I have yet to come across a profile on this site, with MILF somewhere in the username, that isn't a lie. |
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A cheat sheet that almost certainly ensures we won't get along and shouldn't talk:
(1) Your user name contains the word(s): cunt, slut, skank, worthless, useless, whore.
(2) You're here because you read 50 shades of grey and think it's a well written book.
(3) You have a picture up of you flipping the camera off.
(4) You have little or no self-esteem and think being a sub will cure that.
(5) You are genuinely a mean person.
(6) You have no tolerance for sarcasm.
I figured I would put this out there to save us both some time and effort. |
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I have always been intrigued by the Domme that feels she needs to be mean, rude, obnoxious to assert her dominance. As though being a bitch makes you more of a Domme, than a woman who knows how to use tack, sensuality, sexuality and eroticism to get what she wants. I'm sure there are Dom's that are the exact same way, but not having experience with Dom's I wouldn't really be able to comment on that.
I'm curious on peoples thoughts on this. Is a Dominant that acts in the aforementioned manner, just insecure using Dominance as a crutch? Are they just a bitch? What is it about D/s that lends people to the believe that being a miserable human being has some sort of redeeming value? Surely there are some pathetic subs that get off on being treated like shit, like worthless, insignificant little losers. But I don't believe this is the motivation of the
"Bitch Domme".
My favorite are the "Domme" pictures that have the woman flipping off the camera. Because clearly they are edgy and cool. Also love the pics that are heavily Photoshopped to the point of having several images of the same person, and that person more often than not turns out to be not even a little attractive.
Just thinking out loud, but I find it rather interesting why people are motivated by BDSM, why they are really hoping to gain from it. |
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After being on this site for quite some time, it has come to my attention that many people that associate themselves with this "lifestyle" do so out of insecurity or because it gives them comfort or a release from some sort of physiological problem they may have. It's apparent in situations when men are so insecure as to mandate they are always referred to as Master or Sir (and god forbid someone doesn't capitalize it). When they must be shown respect from all subs regardless of what relationship they have or don't have with that individual. They demand respect they have done nothing to earn from that particular woman. A man that demands he be called Master or Sir solely or in large part to stroke his ego (that is severely in need of constant stroking due to insecurities he manifests as arrogance) reminds me of frat boys and sororities girls that wear the Greek letters of their respective organizations everywhere they go. For some subs the "lifestyle" is used as a crutch, it lets them feel comfort when they only have to listen to what another tells them. And don't get me started on the people that post pictures that are not them, or try to pass them selves off as someone or something they are not. The fake profiles that are made to scam people out of their money I at least understand (I don't condone it or agree with it). The people that make fake profiles for attention is quite strange.
To me it seems as though the best sub or Dom is one that doesn't need the other to function but uses the other in a manner that makes each better. Just a though -- who knows I could be wrong. |
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I
find it funny when a person has a picture of themselves posted yet
still finds it necessary to start their profile off with "I'm a fit,
attractive woman" or something to that effect. What are your thoughts
on why people do this? Is it insecurity? The fact that they feel they
need to point out that they are attractive, because had they not told
you it might have gone undetected? I suppose the more pragmatic
explanation would be that they wrote their profile at one point in time
and later decided to add a pic and forgot to change the profile? I
suspect however this is not the case, and the need to point out the
positive physical attributes stem from insecurity, much as some
mistakenly believe that they must be blatantly rude, or harsh to assert
their dominance because without this edge they simply aren't dominant.
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| Age: 23 |
| Tallahassee,
Florida |
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