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cabindweller
| Hetero Male, 36, Virginia
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I'm interested in small scale homestead. Nothing in the realm of self-sufficiency, just to live well cheaply, and have plenty of time to pursue art, or any other passions. Such as making wooden dildos (www.cabindweller.etsy.com).
I'm strongly Dominate, but my turn-ons are pretty plastic. If I feel at least neutral about a kink, ask and I'm more then likely give it a try, after all I have lots of weird fantasies myself. I have a strong preference towards fucking with my play. I understand and respect that there are plenty of people who see kink and sexuality as 2 very different things but I just get to sexually worked up and find non-sexual kink frustrating as hell. Needless to say I fuck with protection no exceptions.
I'm both pretty extreme in my kinks and practical. I fantasize about having a sub tied up in my attic room for use long term, but worry about solitary confinement being against the Geneva convention and a form of psychological torture, and what about dental visits?
I'm poly and involved with a wonderful kinky women, but we are pretty much bedroom only kinksters and I'm having a lot of urges to shape people's lives and to exert control to make them better (and to titillate and amuse myself) 24/7.
I'm super into consent, and I really try to avoid the lamer aspects of BDSM. No, I'm not going to talk down to you through email (unless you specifically say that's what you want). You're a person, I'm a person no matter what our roles, I'm going to try and communicated with you respectfully until that point where it is appropriate to be very, very disrespectful to you.
I'm not interested online play, I've tried it and it was hot, but I just couldn't keep it going and I could not keep up my responsibilities as a dom, which made me feel bad. I'm sure you're lovely, but I am primarily here to meet real people for real time play so that means a couple hour drive time. But saying that if you think we would really click and your from Ohio message me- and we'll see.
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10/18/2010 6:47:58 PM: There are many many profiles out there, that want you to know the 'real them first', or 'know them as a person before a group of orifaci', and complain about all the dirty one liners they get. Which is great, and I totally agree with, but if your profile is only filled the fact that you like OTK spanking, and hair pulling, and you are looking for the perfect dom to complete you and nothing else. Exactly what is the dominate suppose to talk about in that initial message, 'dry summer we've been having'?
I try to put some info in my profile other then my kink interests and it would be nice if you would too, and if you want you can look at my vanilla dating profile, which has all kinds of information most of it more important that I like hairpulling.
10/9/2008 11:08:49 AM: I'm taking a welding class, which is really fun. I'm trying to make a nice pair of steel cuffs and collar on the sly. We'll see how it goes.
3/25/2005 6:10:23 PM: I'm looking for a strong submissive. Someone who needs not to come to me because she has no direction, but chooses to come to me, because she knows what she wants. A strong submissive reflects on me and reveals my strength. By encouraging my submissive to grow and learn, I am stretched and become better.
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