I am a Dominant man seeking a submissive lady for a serious long-term relationship. Ideally, this will include some kink, but I am far more interested in the emotional & psychological aspects of submission.
I look back at the 1950's... when Man was head of the house & woman made sure he felt like a king at home. I have this wonderful image of June Cleaver wearing a leather collar.
if you agree that the mind is a more useful tool of control than a whip, let me know...