I am a Dominant hoping to one day become a Master. I do have experience within the lifestyle, however, my experience has mostly been restricted to short term experimentation. I would of course love to change that, but have had trouble finding subs interested. Vanilla Life: I own my own car and house. I have a well established career in Cyber Security. I was a computer science major and am looking to go back for my masters degree in the near future. Feel free to ask any questions you may have. My Fetlife account is under the same name, the messaging there is a good bit more consistent and reliable. Can also be reached on KIK: goombajoe. I do have yahoo/hangouts/discord accounts, but don't actively check, so if you wish to chat through those methods just ask first.