12/4/2017 3:49:06 AM: Okay guys, let me give everyone here a hint, I won't respond to any dominant, sorry, just won't. It is sad how a few asinine jerks can screw it up for everyone because I know there are some great Dom's out there. Just the same I happen to find the switches more realistic in their views toward this lifestyle, and a switch simply means they aren't 24/7 in their lifestyle ( to me). I'm not willing to give up my independent attitude for anyone, ( plus I like having control every so often myself in the bedroom ). Also,( I shouldn't have to state this) learn the English language or atleast use spell check before sending me a message, I don't feel I could have an intelligent conversation with someone whom sends me a message which looks as if it was written in crayon. I'll be leaving my profile visible today and then hiding it once again because my mailbox is becoming just too flooded.

1/9/2016 7:15:23 PM: Most of you are just full of shit on this site , I know this . I might engage in conversation for awhile , if your interesting or just a hilarious diversion , but honestly I know you won't ever meet , probably won't last past the first two questions I ask . This is just a big circus for me , watching the new crop of findoms come and go , the dick pictures , the tit pictures , the ass pictures , the faceless profiles . Every once in a blue moon someone interesting comes along , rarely , but they come and give it a shot , try their best to sound unique in their words , to sound honest , Earnest , before they are beat down by the swarming pirrana of parasitic hoards that infest their inboxes . They too, soon grow weary and leave . The old timers , sticking around like the grandfathered profiles they still maintain , occasionally , though they have long since moved on to better sites which have more than just generalizations such as slave/sub/switch/dominant . Been here off and on since 2004 , found some pretty good people , found my first Dom here , a couple of fakes , a few that just wanted to learn , some whos life was in total chaos and simply looking for help . Just a big three ring circus really , the sideshows , the freakshows , the fat lady's and the bearded lady's , the swordswallowers and the swordfighters . Can't forget the pros advertising and kids having fun on the midway , riding rides they are clearly not big enough to ride , some getting hurt and others loving the thrill of the rollercoaster . I can barely stand to get on here for any period of time just to see the same sad and pathetic profiles day after day , till finally they fade into the abyss , an unoccupied and long forgotten well worded profile page with pictures still intact , minds and lives diverted in the onslaught of reality . Nothing but a disenchanted shadow of their inner child and its overinflated expectations of what bdsm society was supposed to be