Hello mistresses, goddesses, madame's, which ever title you would prefer to be named.
Not really expecting much out of this site or looking for anything in particular. I am somewhat new to the bdsm and femdom scenes. I have no prior experience first hand and the only knowledge of the scenes are from videos, stories, and such.
As far as appearance goes, I'm a 22 year old at about 6' 0", brown hair, blue eyes, in between an average and athletic build. I will not have any pictures of my self in my profile pictures, however, that does not mean that I will not present you a picture in private if asked. I don't like the idea of having my face on a site like this. I would like to keep my vanilla lifestyle and my vanilla job as far away from this kind of "lifestyle" as possible. Also, at some point, I would like to skype or something similar, (chat only - no online play), so that we both can take precautions that we are not dealing with a crazy looking 70 year old dude with a missing eyeball and wearing depends. I know, I should not be telling a mistress what to do, however, you also have to protect yourself from the fakes, and from the screwballs.
INTERESTS: Finally, if I have not bored you to death already, here are some of the things I would be interested in if I were to live out the bdsm fantasy. My interests are, but not limited to:
Facesitting/ass worship/foot worship/body worship - These are probably my favorites. What can I say though, I'm a perverted man, its in my DNA ;)
Light punishment - Light face slapping, flogging, etc
Bondage
Role playing
Serving Mistress
These are just a few things. However, I am open to suggestions. I am willing to try almost anything once, for instance I know some mistresses are into water sports, humiliation, etc.
There are a few things that are a turn off for me. I know that as the submissive, some mistresses believe that we should not have a say in what activities we perform. I just hope that my wishes would be respected when it comes to my limits.
Currently, there are only a few things and I have valid reasons,
Anal play - not a fan, I'm sorry but I don't want anal seepage
Ball Busting - And this goes for anything to do with dismantling the genital area. I would like to keep somewhat of a vanilla lifestyle, including maybe someday having the ability to have kids. That can be pretty difficult when your junk is squashed or hanging over the fire place like a stuffed deer.
Financial Domination - I agree with showering your mistress with gifts just like you would with a vanilla girlfriend. I understand why Pro Dommes demand tribute for their services which I would be fine with doing. However, the thing that I am talking about is the expectation that the slave should handover his life earnings to you with out even meeting each other. I'm sorry but I'm not into giving someone I have never met money that has a profile with pictures off of google images.
I understand however, that its not about my fantasies, and its about the dominant/mistress. My aim would to please her and if our interests are the same, awesome. For some people, I may tear down my barriers for and do pretty much anything. But only for the right person. And, I am naturally submissive in person and would probably be easily persuaded.
I'm not sure exactly what I'm looking for when it comes to finding a "mistress" or a group of "mistresses." Not really into what is called a 24/7 type deal, but that doesn't mean that could never be changed. Also, I am totally fine with keeping things as a online friendship through casual conversation. Although, be assured, that no matter what the type of relationship is, weather it is a serious domestic relationship, vanilla relationship with a dark behind the scenes type deal, or mistress/slave type friendship, I would do pretty much anything to please you and keep you happy just like I would in a vanilla relationship. I hope my profile suits your interests and can't wait to hear from you ;)
Also, for easier access, you are welcome to message me at yourseatcushion220@gmail.com
