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I have never been a fan of these About Me boxes, but Ill do my best to put something here that makes sense.

I am not currently looking for a sub, as I have some things I need to work out with myself first before I can become anyones Dom. Right now I am making connections with people, striking up conversations, and working to make friends while bettering myself. Ill offer an image of myself when it gets to that point, but until then Ill stick with whats on my profile.

I suppose rather than start with who I am, I should mention who Im not. I am not a Daddy Dom. I am not an authoritarian. Im not a walking wallet or a Sugar-Daddy. I do not want to change who you are. I do not want to take away choices. Finally, I have no reason to demand respect. If you respect me, great. If not, then it is what it is.

For my own favorites in BDSM is Bondage and Restraint. Specifically with Ropework. For me, the use of rope is study in both engineering and art. It has to be comfortable, effective, and pleasing to the eye. I am flexible in all other aspects and have many more likes, but those are the subject of discussions in the future.

With that out of the way, I am an imperfect mess of a human being. Well, perhaps not as much of a mess as I used to be, but still a mess nonetheless. Just recently, I made a huge error and ended up causing issues for someone I do care about. So much so that I even contemplated walking away from the lifestyle altogether, but I cant do that. Its too ingrained in who I am that it would be like cutting off my own arm. I just cant do it, so here I am. All I can do is examine myself, find these flaws of mine, and try to be a better person day by day.

If you are interested in striking up a conversation to talk about the aspects of the lifestyle, the current weather, or anything in between look me up.